Friday, March 31, 2006

Buck, bathroom habits of busy mothers, story


That's a picture of our new buck. We were told he is less than a year old (doubt that) and that he is part Alpine, Toggenburg, Nubian and Boer. He's a freebie we were offered because he is too hard to handle and rough on newborns. I think we can get him to trust us more than he does now but do not know if he will ever be as tame as our others. He was raised with calves. His interaction with humans was limited to being given food.

Bethany had fun in the bathroom yesterday. She pulled toilet paper off the roll and scattered it all over the floor. I was wondering if other busy mothers also clean it up a little at a time, as needed, throughout the day as nature calls.

We posted another family story here. This one involves Caleb, Bethany and THOSE things. Some of the links on this site will not work because we are still moving our pages.

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Homeschooling Links

Free Touch Typing Program http://www.senselang.com/ "Free Program that lets you exercise and learn Touch Typing."

Flashcard Exchange http://www.flashcardexchange.com/ "Create unlimited flashcards. Share your flashcards with friends and students. Study on-line (no account required). Play memory." on their free service.

Kids Farm http://www.kidsfarm.com/ "is about animals and people that live and work on a ranch in Colorado. It is a place for young children to learn about farm and wild animals, animal sounds, what grows, farm equipment and a wildlife rehab center. We also have spelling, puzzles, horses, cows, chickens, sheep, goats, elk, kids rodeo, and guest pets. It is also a tool for teachers who teach farm units."

THE PURITANS’ HOME SCHOOL CURRICULUM http://www.puritans.net/curriculum/ has free online textbooks on different subjects.

Math*U*See Drill Page http://www.mathusee.com/drill.html Create drills for problem areas with this generator.

Virtual Poetry Board http://www.surfnetkids.com/games/funnypoems-wm.htm "Move the words around to create your own virtual poem."

The Baldwin Project http://www.mainlesson.com/main/displayarticle.php?article=feature "seeks to make available online a comprehensive collection of resources for parents and teachers of children." This is a large site with many nice resources.

The Gilder Lehrman Institute of American History http://www.gilderlehrman.org/teachers/module19/index.html has some nice history resources. This page will take you to their WWII collection.

You can find astronomy programs for free download at PeachSeed Software here http://www.peachseed.com/search.html?srch_cat=Home/Hobby:%20Astronomy

NASA's Astronomy Picture of the Day Archive
http://antwrp.gsfc.nasa.gov/apod/archivepix.html

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

Homeschooling Carnival/Why We Homeschool

We were invited to submit an article for the Homeschooling Carnival this week. There are many wonderful homeschooling blog entries featured. Be sure to check them out.
I was asked why we homeschool a few times lately. To answer that, I will republish an article I wrote several years ago.
Our Journey to Homeschool
Published in the Teaching Home 1/2000 and 4/2001
I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go... --Psalm 32:8

Clint and I were first introduced to home education when we were newlyweds at age 19. We weren't too sure about the homeschooling family that lived near our first home. Clint was blessed with a new job and we moved. Three years later we had our first child.

I remember holding my son, Brandon, when he was 6 months old and wondering how I could send my children off with complete strangers for the whole day once they turned 5. It seemed unnatural! Who would teach them? How could I find out all I needed to know about a person to trust them with my child? What were their values? What about the other people they would come in contact with during the school day? I hadn't even considered objectionable curriculum materials (evolution,etc), teacher-related problems, labeling, drugs, violence, weapons, gangs, school-shootings, OBE, etc. And, I knew that no matter how well their intentions were they would not love my children the way I do.

One of Clint's co-workers was a man who was home educating his five children. As we came to know more about this family, Clint became interested in home education. I lacked confidence in my ability to teach. We became more open to home educating our children as the Lord continued putting it in our path. We began researching what other home educators had experienced. We examined the pros and cons. We asked Him to open our hearts to His will for us and for His guidance. We read the Bible and were shown that educating our children was our responsibility. We would be the ones to answer for what they were taught. When I was in 5th grade, my teacher told the class that she was the most influential person in our lives. She told us that she knew us better than our parents ever would because she spent much more time with us. This troubled me as a child and stuck with me through the years. Did we want a virtual stranger to be the biggest influence in their lives? knowing them better than we did? More importantly, did we want to answer to the Lord for what our children were taught if we had no idea of what that was?

We are convicted that the Lord wants us to educate our children at home. The Lord has taught me to have confidence in Him, not myself. Phil:4:13 "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me." I realize that it is Him who will prepare my children for the life they will live, through me. I am a willing vessel for the Lord's work.

In 1997 we started "officially" home educating our children (after 2 years of home-based preschool) with a Praise Party. We stood on the steps of our "classroom" and thanked the Lord for blessing us with this lifestyle and all it would hold. It has been a joy to teach my children and see them learn. They are excelling in academics and more importantly character. I like the people my children are becoming. I enjoy spending time with them. They are some of my closest friends. The Lord is blessing our family through homeschooling in ways we never could have guessed!! Thank you Lord for guiding us to this path!

Monday, March 27, 2006

6 wk old chihuahua picts




Here are pictures of the puppy. We took these for his new family.

Sunday, March 26, 2006

We picked up the wildest, craziest goat...

...I have ever seen yesterday morning. He was in the back of the van when we were pulled by the officer for an expired inspection sticker. When we were asked if there were any weapons in the van, we both wondered if we should mentioned the goat.

This goat has never been handled and is as wild as he can be. He was killing newborn goats on the farm he was at previously, so we'll have to keep an eye on him come kidding season. He goes from completely terrified to fighting mad. He's a dairy cross and very pretty.

After we got the goat settled, we set out to install more fencing and repair exisiting fences, but we were rained out. We headed in the house and started tearing out the kitchen. We have the bottom cabinets installed in the addition, which is really a big utility room. We hope to move the fridge in this week.




We have been talking about installing hardwood floors in the three rooms under repair to match the rest of the house. We figured it would be expensive but worth it since it is about the only thing that really handles the wear and tear from our active family. We were pretty excited to find hardwood under the layers of linoleum. It looks brand new. They had put it down and then put plywood and linoleum over it, so it was never used. If it looks as good all over as what we've found so far, we'll use it.

The puppies have all been spoken for. I'll share pictures soon.

Have a wonderful day worshipping the Almighty!

Saturday, March 25, 2006

PTL! We got a ticket!

We have been sincerely praying for Amanda to have a positive experience with an officer so she can see they don't always treat people harshly based on negative assumptions. She has been frightened of authority figures ever since she was bullied by the four officers the night she sleepwalked. We still PTL for the DSS worker who intervened to spare her from more of it.

Our concerns are that she will again sleepwalk out of the house in spite of our precautions or one day be in a situation where she needs an officer's assistance. She needs to be able to trust them enough to be able to go to them if she needs their help. We have repeatedly said to her "Not all of them are like that. Some are good guys."

We can not explain how Clint and I missed the inspection sticker, which went out of date last July, on the "Mama Van." We even talked about and looked directly at it last night. For some reason we were blinded to the fact it is very out of date. We thought it had to be renewed THIS July. We have no explanation why we have not been pulled in all of this time, especially last Sunday when we were surrounded by deputies and State Troopers at Yorktown Battlefield. We believe it is the hand of God in Amanda's life answering our prayers to restore her confidence in authority figures.

We got pulled early this morning by the nicest State Trooper we have ever met. He was in a great mood and joked around with us. He told us to get the van inspected and he'd help us in court to reduce the ticket fees. It was such a healing experience for Amanda. She said she wished she had been picked up by him instead of the other man. We knew it was a message for Amanda when he looked right in the van and said "Hey, I am one of the good guys."

Clint has to go to court and pay a small fine, but it is well worth the big smile on Amanda's face when she was listening to the trooper talk. Our hearts soared when she said "HE was one of the good ones. I like him. He was nice!"

So, that's why we are praising the Lord for a ticket! :-)

Friday, March 24, 2006

Mothering Moments

OK Mom, you are running late on homeschool. Company is coming and the house is a mess. Supper needed to be in the crock pot two hours ago. You sit down to catch your breath while you look over recipes and then your excited four year old comes to show you the treasure map he just drew. Do you say "uh huh" and continue with what you were doing, treating the interruption as a minor distraction? If so, you are missing out on an important mothering moment. It only takes a minute to put down what you are working on, make eye contact and listen to him share his creation with you. Ask a couple of pertinent questions and then praise and encourage accordingly. In doing so, you are teaching him he is valuable to you.

You see, we teach our children whether we are doing it deliberately or not. If you treat him like a minor distraction, you are telling him other things hold more importance and are more worthy of your time. This is not to imply we should stop trying to manage our home or accomplish things in a timely manner, but we should take a moment to listen to our children when they desire our attention. Being there for our children is what mothering is all about. What better way to communicate to them God is always available for all of their concerns than to model it in our parenting?

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Homeschooling Links and Freebies

The children enjoyed their playtime in the snow yesterday while I cooked their breakfast. I managed to shatter an unopened pint of my blackberry jelly on the floor, but I still have a few more to carry us until picking season.

Friends who have been watching the events of the past few years unfold have commented they feel God is preparing us for something in the future. None of these friends know each other, so we feel this may be God showing us how to pray for our family. Please keep us in prayer that if God does indeed have something He desires us to do in the future that it will be readily apparent to us it is from Him and that we will go unhesitatingly forward.

Spring's teasing dance has me frustrated. I enjoy time spent outdoors. I have fences to repair, new fences to put up and things to plant, but they will have to wait until warmer weather.

There are new pictures of the children up at http://www.contentmentacres.com/march2006.htm Some links will not work as we are in stages of moving the site.

Homeschooling Links:

Reward Board http://www.myrewardboard.com/ free trial of their reward system "The ability to set and meet goals is key for your child's success in school, career, and life. Each met goal builds self-esteem, confidence, and pride. My Reward Board's Goal Gizmo gives you and your child the tool you need to define goals and monitor progress toward their completion."

Teacher Created Resources Free Stuff http://www.teachercreated.com/free/ offers free monthly activities, free lesson plans and activities, and free brain teasers.

Book Adventure http://www.bookadventure.com/ "is a FREE reading motivation program for children in grades K-8. Children create their own book lists from over 7,000 recommended titles, take multiple choice quizzes on the books they've read, and earn points and prizes for their literary successes. Book Adventure was created by and is maintained by Sylvan Learning."

RHL School http://www.rhlschool.com/ "Your place to get free ready to use quality worksheets for teaching, reinforcement, and review. Worksheets that are truly unique! Many of these worksheets can serve as the basis for lessons."

Tux Paint http://www.newbreedsoftware.com/tuxpaint/ "is a free drawing program designed for young children (kids ages 3 and up). It has a simple, easy-to-use interface, fun sound effects, and an encouraging cartoon mascot who helps guide children as they use the program. It provides a blank canvas and a variety of drawing tools to help your child be creative." Be sure to also download the optional stamps.

Marco Polo http://www.marcopolo-education.org/home.aspx "Seven content Web sites with lesson plans, student interactive content, downloadable worksheets, links to panel-reviewed Web sites and additional resources created by the nation's leading education organizations."

Virginia's Virtual Art Room http://www.vmfa.state.va.us/gmuvava/index.html Contains images of artifacts, lesson plans, a quiz, vocabulary, maps, etc on Ancient Egypt, but also contains references to gods and goddesses that may be offensive to some. Our children used it in conjunction with a visit to Virginia's Fine Arts Museum in Richmond. For our Virginia friends, the

Virginia Fine Arts Museum http://www.vmfa.state.va.us/ (free admission) is a wonderful way to expand your homeschooling experience. They do ask for a donation but it is not required.

Freebies:
Start Sampling is a good way to try new products through free samples. You can also get magazine free trials (no bills) or entire subscriptions. We have received cereal, cookies, chocolate, candy, dog food, cat food, ziploc bags, laundry detergent, fabric softeners, trashbags, pens, perfume, lotion, makeup, supplements, medicine, coffee, books, coupons, diapers, music, baby items, etc. We get a sample of something in the mail nearly every day.

Dove http://www.dove.us/ offers free samples of their products quite often. Amanda and I enjoy trying them and have a few favorites.

A Sunday school teacher asked, "Johnny, do you think Noah did a lot of fishing when he was on the Ark?" "No," replied Johnny. "How could he, with just two worms."

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

Snow!

We had snow fall on the ground last night. My children are off to play in it, except for Bethany who has a tray of snow to play in at the kitchen table. Snow means playtime, fun, hot chocolate, snow cones or snow cream and snow painting in our house. Enjoy your day!

Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Clint took my van

so he can pick up more free firewood with the trailer on his way home tonight. The children and I need to stack what he brought home last so we'll try to get to that today.

I am sitting at my new desk and enjoying having working drawers again. PTL for His provision! This one is real wood, while the other one was particle board. It was swollen and flaking from where it was flooded and the drawer had literally fell apart in my hands. I had started praying for a better desk two weeks ago.

We did not get to explore in the woods yesterday because the wind coming off the water made it far too chilly, but we will get to it one day soon. Amanda has already found several old bottles.

Amanda is resting easier now that she has several nights under her belt without sleepwalking.

Our prayers are with the Fouch family concerning the loss of Grandma and as they travel for the service. We are also praying for Jessica N. as she copes with a painful recovery after surgery and Jill as she travels to Rock Hill, SC for a missions conference.

I hope to add some homeschooling links to the blog soon. It's been too crazy to do that lately.

Monday, March 20, 2006

It looks like a great day

so far. The children seem to have caught up on their sleep and instead of moving around zombie like, they were all smiles and giggles this morning.

We plan to head outside to explore the woods now that all of the brush in them has been burned completely out. We had tried to burn out the brush before with a controlled burn, but it never burned hot enough to clear out the bushes. The incredible heat and fury of the fire last week still amazes us. We have hordes of people touring our neighborhood to look at the damage. There have been so many, the deputies set up roadblocks to keep out unnecessary traffic to give us residents peace.

We took the children to Yorktown Battlefield yesterday afternoon and did about 1/3 of the audio tour before it became too chilly to continue. We had a grand time exploring the redoubts and looking at the cannons. I hope to put pictures of our trip up in a day or so. We bought a pass, so we'll go back and finish the tour soon.

Clint and I came home and watched Cinderella Man about James J. Braddock. He was a prize fighter who overcame incredible odds to put food on the table for his family during the Great Depression. The story has morals. Don't steal. Repay your debts. Work hard. Keep trying even when things are tough. Jim Braddock was a man full of hope, strength and love for his family. One thing that stood out to me is that he even repaid the government's relief money he had to take to keep his children. This is one of the very few modern movies that portrays the male head of the household in a positive manner.

A kind lady named Elaine gave us a beautiful old plantation desk and some other furniture yesterday. She has some issues in her life that need prayer if you care to intercede for her. They are too personal to reveal, but God knows how serious they are. The plantation desk will replace our flood ruined computer desk and we will finally have drawers to store things in once again.

Luke 12:22-32 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.The life is more than meat, and the body is more than raiment.Consider the ravens: for they neither sow nor reap; which neither have storehouse nor barn; and God feedeth them: how much more are ye better than the fowls? And which of you with taking thought can add to his stature one cubit? If ye then be not able to do that thing which is least, why take ye thought for the rest? Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. If then God so clothe the grass, which is to day in the field, and to morrow is cast into the oven; how much more will he clothe you, O ye of little faith?And seek not ye what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink, neither be ye of doubtful mind. For all these things do the nations of the world seek after: and your Father knoweth that ye have need of these things. But rather seek ye the kingdom of God; and all these things shall be added unto you. Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom.

Sunday, March 19, 2006

Back to normal...we hope

Things have settled down. We still have to clean out the vans, but that can wait until later this week.

I have managed to set off the door alarms every morning since they were installed. :-)

Fred visited our site and prayed for us while we were going through all of this. He has a site that focuses on prayer. Drop by and pay him a visit.

Barbara Wood also paid us a visit and said she was praying for us and offered a link exchange. We added her to our bloglines roll and encourage you to visit her homeschooling site as well.

We do exhange links with others, so if you have a site you think will fit in with our others (Christian, homeschooling), drop us a line.

Clint and I believe instead of asking "why me" in despair, why not look at the situation, thank God and consider yourself blessed that God has allowed you to go through it. God uses these trials and tribulations to make us stronger, wiser and to develop godly character in us to mold us for His use. Just as you allow your children to experience difficult situations because you know it will ultimately help them later in life, God does the same with us. He has our best interests at heart as we do with our own children.

We felt God sustaining us through every bit of the last week. He was as real to us as the words on this screen are to you. We were never given to fear, but we were concerned for our family and home so we cried out to Him for help and He answered.

The experiences of the last three years (many deaths, miscarriages, flood, fatal car accident, man jumping in front of our car, the sleepwalking and now the fire) have blessed our family because we now know we will call out for help from Him first and they have showed us how very much He cares for His children. We know we will work together as a family to overcome obstacles without complaining and we are closer to each other because of the events of the past few years. If you are in a situation where you feel threatened or endangered, call upon the Lord for help first. God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1

"In the world you have tribulation, but take courage, I have overcome the world." John 16:33
"Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me." Hebrews 13:5-6
"...we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope: And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us." Romans 5:3-5

Saturday, March 18, 2006

More U.S. Women Swap Briefcase for Diaper Bag

More U.S. Women Swap Briefcase for Diaper Bag

March 10, 2006— More and more American women are swapping briefcases and office suits for dungarees and diaper bags as they opt to stay home and raise children, putting the brakes on decades of female advances in the workplace.

For the first time in the post-feminist era, the number of working women has begun to retreat, with even graduates from prestigious universities giving up promising careers for old-fashioned domesticity.

A new magazine launched in California has seized on the trend: the cover of "Total 180!" shows a slender, radiant woman balancing her daughter on one hip as she tosses her briefcase into the trash.

"With practical information that validates, supports, and reassures their lifestyle, Total 180! is the sustenance for professional women turned stay-at-home moms," the magazine's Web site says.

Some six million women have chosen to leave the workforce to stay home and raise their children, the magazine's chief editor, Erika Kotite, told AFP.

But they feel isolated, she said, and the magazine aims to address their needs "with humor and lightheartedness." But not everyone sees this positively, especially feminists who fought decades ago to open workplace doors to women.

Rose Olver, a professor of women's studies at Amherst College in Massachusetts, called the trend "somewhat alarming."

"Women in the 1970s fought for access and my sense is that the urgency to open the work place to women has subsided," Olver said.

"Opportunities open for women may decrease" in the future if more women drop out, she said. "The older generation feel maybe a bit put out that this generation is so cavalierly assuming that these possibilities will be open to them."

"The child-rearing issue is much thornier than many feminists thought it would be," said Linda Fowler of Dartmouth College in New Hampshire.

"What feminist theorists thought was that, if enough women were in the workplace in high-scale and highly qualified jobs, the whole workplace economy would be more humanized. That has not happened," Fowler told AFP. "There is still a difference on obstacles women face as they are trying to juggle a career and family."

But behind the debate of whether the trend is good or bad is a broader stagnation or even decline in women holding jobs in the U.S. workplace after rising for 50 years straight.
"The new factor at play is the change in the trend in the female participation rate, which has edged down on balance since 2000 after having risen for five decades," said a White House report last month.

In 2000, 77 percent of women between 25 and 54 held a job in the United States. By 2005, the level had dropped to 75 percent, a significant demographic shift.
How much the data represents voluntary workplace dropouts by women and how much they are forced is still debated.

Kim Gandy, president of the feminist National Organization of Women, which helped promote working women from the 1960s, said the decline of women in the U.S. workforce reflects in part simple economics: the fall in overall jobs since the U.S. economy slowed sharply in 2000.
However, she said that other factors, like wages and the cost of childcare, impact working women much more than men. "When good jobs are plentiful, it becomes easier to cover the cost of child care with your wages."

"When wages are depressed ... it becomes a much closer question as to whether it's worth a tradeoff."

Often in families it is the woman rather than the man who weighs her own income against household costs, deciding whether or not to keep a job, Gandy said.

"There are definitely some women whose wage work does not bring in enough money in order to make a significant impact on the family," she said. "You might say that in her case she could make a choice, but most women don't see it as a choice."

Friday, March 17, 2006

More picts of fire

We have added more pictures of the fire story on the same page: http://www.contentmentacres.com/fire.htm

Evidently, we have not e-mail updates to everyone because we are getting in "trouble" for not letting people know we are OK. We are SO sorry for this. It has been hectic but life is slowly returning to normal. We still have guests with more company coming tonight.

Homeschooling Links & Money Math Tip

Other than needing to catch up on laundry and retrieve what we tossed in the vans during evacuation, we are getting back into a normal routine. The fire cleared out our woods enough the children can explore them more than they ever have before. They've been finding some interesting items.

Clint's been asked for his autograph from his buddies at work that saw him on t.v. They've had a good time teasing him. Clint has been blessed to work with a great group of men. I have personally met most of them and have enjoyed meeting and talking to everyone of them. Clint fills me in on what's going on in their lives and keeps me up to date on their prayer needs and latest antics so I feel like I know most of them personally.


Homeschooling Tip:

Our local Walmart has a small black drawer tray in their office products section that will hold bills and change for approx $1.50. This has made a good "cash register" drawer for money math and can be reused to organize a drawer when we are finished. It is a more economical choice than the toy cash registers that are too small to hold real bills and feature too few compartments for change. You'll also get more use out of it for less investment.

Homeschooling Links:

Here's some links shared with me I thought I'd pass along.

Homeschool Reviews is a place to learn from other homeschooling parents what is working, not working and WHY. You can share your likes and dislikes on the curriculum you use as well. There is also a friendly forum.

Is Government Regulation Necessary for High Achievement?


Does Spending Correlate with Achievement?


Every Day Spelling has sample Spelling lessons for grades 1-8 including frequently misspelled words list. Also has some great spelling tips for each grade level.

Online Grammar and Writing Handbook by Scott Foresman for grades 1-6.

Blue Web'n "is an online library of 2017 outstanding Internet sites categorized by subject, grade level, and format (tools, references, lessons, hotlists, resources, tutorials, activities, projects). You can also browse by broad subject area (Content Areas) or specific sub-categories (Subject Area)."
Personal Educational Press "Create free educational worksheets such as flashcards, game boards, and quizzes to print directly from your browser. Simply choose a word list and an output style."

Book Adventure Brandon and Amanda were members of this and loved it. "is a FREE reading motivation program for children in grades K-8. Children create their own book lists from over 7,000 recommended titles, take multiple choice quizzes on the books they've read, and earn points and prizes for their literary successes."

RHL School "Your place to get free ready to use quality worksheets for teaching, reinforcement, and review. Worksheets that are truly unique! Many of these worksheets can serve as the basis for lessons."



Tux Paint "is a free drawing program designed for young children (kids ages 3 and up). It has a simple, easy-to-use interface, fun sound effects, and an encouraging cartoon mascot who helps guide children as they use the program. It provides a blank canvas and a variety of drawing tools to help your child be creative." Don't forget to download the optional rubberstamps.
MarcoPolo "Access lesson plans, student activities, reviewed web sites and other MarcoPolo resources. " "Seven content Web sites with lesson plans, student interactive content, downloadable worksheets, links to panel-reviewed Web sites and additional resources created by the nation's leading education organizations."


Let your unfailing love surround us, Lord, for our hope is in you alone. -Psalm 33:22

Thursday, March 16, 2006

Pictures of the fire are up

at http://www.contentmentacres.com/fire.htm The rest of the site is not operational yet. We just purchased the domain over the weekend.

Brandon and Amanda had friends sleep over last night, so it will be a fun day for all of us.

Wednesday, March 15, 2006

DSS Update and Home Evacuation

The DSS worker called yesterday to let us know that she never had any questions about our family or Amanda. She said she could tell Amanda was from a good home and was eager to go home. She said she had no idea why the deputy told us that and that he had issues with our homeschooling or why he tried to cause trouble for us. Amanda had told them she had no friends because she could not remember any of their names as confused as she was. She told him this so he wouldn't start scaring her again. His assumptions that she has no friends is why he felt we needed to be investigated and the DSS worker said he was way off base. She said even if Amanda didn't have friends, that isn't a cause for investigation or the bullying he did to Amanda.

She also confirmed what Amanda has been telling us about her being unkindly treated by 4 officers. They were so rough on Amanda that she sent them out of the room to give our daughter peace. Five minutes after that, Amanda was able to relax and her confused state lifted enough so she could give them the information needed to get her home safely. We are very thankful the DSS worker was there to shelter Amanda from people who were treating her harshly based on wrong assumptions. We have written a letter to educate the department about sleepwalkers. We have also asked for an apology to Amanda from the officer to undo the damage he has done to our daughter.

Amanda was so afraid to fall asleep Monday night, she asked us to sleep in front of the doors to keep her in. She was more afraid of running into that deputy than she was waking up on the road. This concerns us because, heaven forbid, should our protective measures fail and she needs help again, she needs to have confidence that they will treat her kindly and help her get home.

As soon as that phone call was over, we finally heard our dogs barking. We ran outside to see what was the matter only to see a huge wall of fire headed for our home with a forestry department official waiting for us. It was 20' over the tree line and bent by the wind towards us. Clint and I literally walked out and saw a huge wall of fire towering over our home.

The Forester was surprised we did not know there was a fire headed for us. We had five minutes to get out. We packed 5 children, 11 pets, our pictures and three baskets of clothing into our vans and headed down the road to wait it out. We did not know what to expect when we arrived home.

Our family was featured on the evening news along with our chihuahua, Shysie, who had a strong opinion about the bright light on the camera pointed in her face. Our children were the ones in the white van waving at the news crew. We have been offered a tour of the station in exchange for our help with the story.

We came home to find fire had burned all the way around our home. PTL our home was kept safe. The foundation of one barn was on fire, so we had to immediately put that out. A rabbit cage was also on fire, but we were able to safely remove the terrorfied rabbit. We had to hose down and watch our 4,000 square foot barn all night because fire was lurking back there..and in fact, still is. Our neighbor's vinyl siding melted off her home and her miniblinds melted to the inside of her windows.

As I enter this, there are news helicopters over our home looking at our neighbors on the other side of us as their home is now in danger of burning. Fires keep popping up because the wind is so strong.

Brandon commented to us later that "You know, it gets kind of boring for a while and then big things start to happen." Boring right now would be a welcomed change!

We plan to keep watch on our barns and rest as a family today. Thank you for the prayers, encouragement, offers of help, food and shelter and the love shown. We love all of you too.

We took pictures and will share after things settle down. We are wiped out tired from the events of this week...and it's only Wednesday.

We PTL for His shelter and protection over our family through the amazing events of the past few days.

Monday, March 13, 2006

Amanda was brought home by a deputy

Amanda has sleepwalked before, but has never left the house. Her episodes have been mild and we just sent her back to bed. When one parent sleepwalks, a child is 10xs more likely to sleepwalk. Amanda has two parents who have sleepwalking symptoms. Wendy's is very mild. Clint's is in the middle.

Sometime around 10:30 last night, she got out of her bed, walked outside and was found by a sheriff's deputy 2 miles from home. He took her to the station and called a social worker who assumed she was a troubled runaway from an abusive home. Amanda said she asked them to take her home. The deputy said she asked to go to the station so he had to involve a social worker.

From Amanda's perspective, she went to bed only to wake up in the dark in a strange place with a strange man in uniform shining a light in her face asking her questions and wanting her to get into his car. As you can imagine she was very, very scared. She is afraid to go to sleep because she is afraid it will happen again.

A sleepwalker is often disoriented and confused and often unable to answer questions coherently. They assumed this sympton in Amanda was because she was hiding something and so, they grilled her pretty hard even though she told them she thought she had been sleepwalking.

Once they found out she was homeschooled, they questioned her about that.

Wendy was up at 12:30 and saw a car sitting in the driveway with it's lights out. She went down to investigate and found a deputy watching their house. She grilled him pretty hard about what he was doing and he finally told her that a child by the name of Michelle who was 13 had been picked up and claimed them as her parents. He said he was waiting to let us know. Sleepwalkers mumble in their confused state and Asbell sounds a lot like "Michelle." We are pretty sure she was telling them her last name but it was not clear enough to be understood. They thought her name was Melissa, which has the same number of syllables as Amanda.

Once she finally got in our arms again, we were questioned about our schooling and our family size. We told her we felt she was sleepwalking. One of the deputies agreed and said that runaways pack items and carry money. Amanda had nothing on her and was so confused, he figured it was sleepwalking. Then we were told that the social worker filed a case against us and would come to the house to interview us.

We took Amanda to a doctor today and told him the story. PTL, he was a Christian, homeschool friendly and has two siblings who sleepwalked. He put down in her chart that she had a sleepwalking history, had two sleepwalking parents and agreed she had a sleepwalking episode last night. He also gave his opinion that she was not physically or emotionally abused.

The social worker did not show up as promised (threatened). Clint called the office to see when she planned to come. He wants to be here when the interview is held. We were told it could be days, so we will have to see how the rest unfolds. We have made copies of the doctor's report to hand them.

Because homeschooling families get such a hard time from social workers, we would appreciate your prayers for wisdom and guidance. As soon as we confirmed we homeschooled, we got a lot more questions and things were less relaxed. Once we told them we homeschooled, how many children we had came into the issue. We have seen the checklist the social workers use to give points to investigated families to determine how far to take the case. Faith, homeschooling and more than 3 children all count towards abuse.

We have called HSLDA and they have told us to call them if we are contacted. Our membership was expired and they told us to renew and they would expedite it.

Thank you so much for your prayers and words of encouragement. Please pray for Amanda. She is very traumatized and we are working hard to assure her she will be safe when she sleeps tonight. We have locks for the windows and doors and will install alarms tomorrow.

Clint and I feel about 50 years older than we did yesterday. :-)

URGENT: We need intercessory prayer

for protection, guidance and wisdom. I can't give details now, but it is very serious and we are dealing with social services.

Sunday, March 12, 2006

A homeschooling family will be featured

on TLC March 13 at 8 and 11 p.m. and also again March 19 at 1 p.m.

16 Children and Moving In "There's nothing average about the Duggar Family. They live in a little house that is bursting at the seams. That's because the Duggars have fifteen children and another on the way! They're building a new house, but it's been difficult and they need help."

This show features their new steel framed home which they built mostly themselves. Their goal was to build it without going into debt.

Clint taped it last night and we hope to watch it soon. We really enjoyed the first show that featured their family and have it on tape as well. If you missed Raising 16 Children, you can catch it on Discovery Health on March 15 at 8 and 11 p.m. and again on March 29 at 3 p.m.

You can also learn more about their family websites here and here.

If you are asking "Why in the world would anyone have so many children?" you should read this:

"We did not always view children as a gift. Michelle & I did not have any children for the first 4 years of marriage. We chose to use the birth control pill. After our first child was born, Michelle started back on the pill, shortly after, she miscarried. We found that sometimes the birth control pill will allow you to conceive, but then cause a miscarriage. We then realized we had the same heart attitude about children as those willfully choosing abortion (wanting to make our own plans, live our own lives, children could be a bother or interruption). We searched the scriptures & found that God says, “Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: & the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them” (Psalms 127:3-5). We asked God to forgive us for not wanting to receive His gifts, & we gave Him control of this area of our lives." from http://www.jimbob.info/faq.html

Clint and I share these same convictions about children being a GIFT and God's authority and cotorlin our lives.

Saturday, March 11, 2006

A Man Called Peter by Catherine Marshall

A Man Called Peter by Catherine Marshall I just loved reading this book. In fact, I delayed reading the ending because I just didn't want to say goodbye to people I came to think of as friends. Catherine covers her husband's life in detail to give the reader a chance to know him on a personal level. Her love and admiration for him comes through every page. Peter was a very popular preacher who preached at New York Avenue Presbyterian Church in Washington, DC (aka "Church of the Presidents.") He was also a chaplain to the U.S. Senate. People flocked to hear him speak and lives changed because he allowed God to use him. He maintained a sincere heart for the things of the Lord. His prayers were short and simple in comparison to many "great" spiritual leaders, but so heartfelt they changed the lives of those who heard them. He was a man of great faith and is a role model for Christians today. Catherine gave us a special gift in letting it be revealed that Peter was also a human being with imperfections. This makes his walk with Christ even more impacting to readers. There is a movie based on this book by the same title, but I am sure they left out many important aspects so I'd grab the book first. I am saving my copy of A Man Called Peter so my children can read about this man's life and his impact on the world around him for Christ. It will be required reading for our high school students.

Friday, March 10, 2006

Picts, weekend plans, loving your family


Puppies at 4 weeks
Clint came home feeling pretty worn out yesterday evening. The bug is still hanging on in his system. He went right to bed. PTL the rest of us are still well. We sympathize with his discomfort, but have assured him he can keep it all to himself. :-)
I took a nap with Clint on Wednesday when he was home. It threw my schedule off so I was up late last night and fell asleep tonight at 8. Now I am wide awake again. 8-1
We have a quiet weekend ahead with nothing planned except enjoying our time together. We will probably get into one project or another since we are never happy just sitting around, but there is nothing critical that has to be done.
Enjoy your family this weekend. Time goes by so quickly that we need to make the best use of each day. Sometimes the best use of our time is spent encouraging and strengthening our family by telling them how much they add to our lives. They need your praise because the world is filled with critics. Think about this: If you don't tell them, they'll have to guess at it and guessing leaves a lot of room for uncertainty. Uncertainty breeds doubt, self-value issues, hurts and resentment.
I once knew a man who waited 35 years to hear his father tell him he loved him. It was one of the moments that stood out clearly in his life. It was something he had longed to hear for his entire childhood. This was a big, tough, brawny man who nearly cried when he shared the story of his father finally saying "I love you, Son." For 35 years, he didn't know if his father loved him or if he just tolerated his presence. Your children need your audible expression of your love for them.
...Thou art my beloved Son; in thee I am well pleased. Luke 3:22
Walk in wisdom toward them that are without, redeeming the time. Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man. Colossians 4:4-5
See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is. Ephesians 5:15-17

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Update on Missing Child He's been found!

Corey has been found. He said he wandered into the woods, got lost and could not find his way home. He slept in the woods overnight and found his way out this morning. PTL he is safe and sound!

Thank you for your prayers!

URGENT: Missing 12 y.o. Child in Virginia

This just came from a lady we know through our local Freecycle List. If you are local to VA, please take the time to read it and keep your eyes open. If not, please lift them up in prayer.

"Please, I need everyone to help me find my son. He never came home today from school. He's either lost, runaway or kidnapped. His name is Corey F., small 12 yr old boy. Dark brown hair, browneyes. fair skinned. Weighs about 65/70 lbs.He goes to XXXXX XXXXX School, in Hampton,VA. He rides the HRT bus to and from school. He was last seen wearing dark school uniform pants, and a DallasCowboys' winter coat. We live off from XXXXXXX Drive, Hampton,VA. The police have been notified, and have been searching for him. I really need some help to find where he is at or what happened, and if he's ok...please please help me!!A very tired and worried mother, Jacy"

If you have information to give Jacy on her son Corey, please contact the Hampton, VA Police Department.

Homeschooling Freebies

I'm not sleepy so I thought I'd post early for today. We are behind on e-mail.

Clint plans on going to work today and so far no one else has come down with the virus he had. This is one time it is OK to not share in our household. :-)

Here are some online freebies of interest to homeschooling families:

http://www.cartoonnetwork.com/gen/ayw/
is giving away a free copy of Animate Your World: Shaping Character a CD-ROM designed to teach and build character that allow students to design and animate their own creation using positive character traits.

http://www.allhandsondeck.org/ "All Hands on Deck! Learning Adventures aboard the US Navy's premiere tall sailing ship - the USS Constitution-is a unique online educator resource site featuring free homeschool and teacher lesson plans with interactive curriculum that integrates geography, math, social studies, history, science, arts & crafts, language arts and more in 14 lessons for grades K-12."

http://www.kinderart.com/ "KinderArt is the largest collection of free art lessons on the Internet. What began in 1997 as a few helpful ideas for teachers and parents, has since grown into an enormous collection of resources featuring thousands of free lesson plans, ideas and resources."

http://www.hassleme.co.uk/ "Not eating enough fruit? Forgot to feed the fish again? Need a little help keeping your New Year's resolutions? Tell us what to hassle you about, and we'll nag you via email at semi-unpredictable intervals."

O my people, trust in him at all times. Pour out your heart to him, for God is our refuge.
Psalm 62:8

Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Clint is sick and has spent all day in bed...

which is extremely unusual for him. Since he started working at 16, he's only missed about 5 days of work and a couple of those were to stay home and take care of me when I was very dehydrated during pregnancy with small children to watch.

He called Tuesday afternoon and said he was coming down with something. By time he got home, his temperature was around 104 and he was feeling drained. When he went straight to bed, I knew he was suffering. He's also had a ferocious headache we've been treating with Valerian, Skullcap and White Willow.

We've been taking good care of him and keeping him company today. At any time during the day, you could find one or more of the rest of us in the bed with him. He's feeling better so we think we have the virus on the run. So far, no one else has come down with it.

Clint's evening was made better when a good friend of his called to share what was going on in his family's life.

I don't think I put a picture of the Chocolate Lab Clint bought in the blog. He finally settled on Cocoa Pebbles for a name. We'll call her Pebbles. She's a sweetie with a very affectionate personality.


Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Bethany has developed an interest in the toilet.

Our beautiful model is wearing a heart-adorned pink sweatshirt from A-Hand-Me-Down with a matching Osh Kosh overall jumper. She is shown here with custom-designed, green freckles by Crayola Markers of the non-washable kind.Her hair was beautifully styled by "I can do it myself."The smile on her face is from "Her Daddy" and the twinkle in her eyes is brought to you by "Her Mama."

No, I am not talking about potty training. My 2 year old's interest involves throwing everything we own into the toilet. :-o Monday, she fed the potty all of our toothbrushes and five tubes of toothpaste. Yes, five tubes. I found discounted cartoon character toothpastes before Christmas and thought they'd make good Christmas gifts for the children's Wise Men Bags. Not only did she feed the toilet, but apparently the three children before her did not flush after using it. I had that look mothers get "WHY IN THE WORLD DO THEY DO THIS SORT OF THING?!" It was OK; I had extra toothpaste and toothbrushes in the hall closet. I have explained to Bethany that the toilet does not have any teeth and so, has no need of those articles. At least she didn't break the toilet like Joshua did when he was little. Joshua threw a heavy object into the bowl and it broke a big hole in it. That was OK, since we had an extra toilet in storage in the barn. No kidding. We had received some used building supplies and that came with them. We put it out there thinking "Well, you never know." :-D



Zephaniah 3:17 17: The LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; He will save, He will rejoice over thee with joy; He will rest in his love, He will joy over thee with singing.

Saturday, March 04, 2006

New Puppy Pictures...




Puppies are growing fast. They are three weeks old this week. Their ears are starting to try to stick up and they are making barking and growling noises.

Thank you Myra P: We were given free firewood through Myra P. Myra has been such a big blessing to us since Hurricane Isabel. Anything that she knew we needed, she offered to us first. We are very thankful for everyone who has helped us whether it was just dropping by to check on and encourage us or finding items we needed to help us cut costs so we could make repairs.

Clint and I do not get to socialize much, so we had no idea of how fondly we were thought of by so many. We are usually the people helping others, so it has been truly surprising to see kindness and generosity directed towards us. We still have a long, long way to go, but PTL we are seeing a lot of progress too.

Homeschooling: Dave visited our blog and invited us to check out his page Bible Quizzes at: http://www.biblequizzes.org.uk It has several different types of puzzles and quizzes you can play online as well as free materials you can request. This would be a great resource for Sunday School teachers or Bible classes.

Christian visitors to our sites from countries where you can not freely worship. We will never reveal your name or other information because we know it can cost you your life or imprisonment, but we have received your messages and prayer requests. You are in our prayers as you struggle to worship God in countries hostile to the Christian faith. God will sustain you. He's stronger than what you face. Hold fast for the day is coming when Jesus will be revealed as Lord of all and those who punish you will be on their knees proclaiming Him as Lord.

Friday, March 03, 2006

Two Things You Might Not Know About Your Teen

Sleep patterns: Lack of sleep impairs brain function and greatly affects moods. Most adolescents are not getting adequate rest. Research shows they need 8 1/2 to 9 1/2 hours of sleep each night but most are only getting 6 to 7 hours. For a chart of sleep needs by age see: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/01/09/AR2006010901481.html

New research also indicates teen circadian rhythyms differs from adults in that they tend to fall asleep and awake later than the typical adults. The National Sleep Foundation http://www.sleepfoundation.org/ is now asking schools to educate parents and consider later school start times for adolescents. Some schools have already made these changes with expectations to see better performance and attendance.

Teen Brain Development Affects Judgement: Adult and adolescent brains differ in how they process information due to which areas of the brain are active at each stage of development. These differences in the brain have been shown to affect teen decision making abilities. Specifically, they are more likely to choose short term rewards over long term benefits and are unable to accurately judge dangerous situations. New research is shedding light on the popular myth that brain development ends after early childhood. http://www.brainconnection.com/topics/?main=news-in-rev/teen-frontal

These two factors may contribute to place them at high risk for traffic accidents. Notably, teens are the highest accident age group. Teens make up less than 7% of drivers, but they account for 14% of fatal car accidents. www.nhtsa.dot.gov

While more research into both of these areas is needed, law makers need to examine current driving laws to reduce teen injury and deaths. Parents need to help their teens get proper rest and continue to provide guidance in making sound decisions.

Thursday, March 02, 2006

It has been a very busy week so far...

with working on the addition, homeschool, housework and errands. We are hoping to be able to stay home the rest of the week to get more work done to the addition.

When we moved our sectional couch out to get the new furniture, we cut off all useable fabric and removed the fiberfill so we can make pillows for the new couch and beds for the animals to sleep on. We got FOUR 38 gallon trashbags full of fiberfill that looks brand new.

Not surprising to anyone who has been following our recovery from Hurricane Isabel, we did not hear from FEMA as promised on the elevation grant in February. We were trying to hold off on repairs to see if we would need that money to cover the rest of the elevation costs, but we just can't wait any longer.

A lady asked for her blind kitten to be given a home to keep her from being put down in a shelter. The female kitten was born without eyes. We have her and she is doing great here. She's solid black with long hair. We plan on having her spayed and having her eyelids stitched closed to prevent infection in her sockets. Cats born with anopthalmia usually do very well. There is one named Ghost who can hear and catch flying insects with his paws!

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Juliana Wetmore Born Without a Face

Clint and I heard about this little girl right after she was born. We prayed for her and hoped she'd make it. We were delighted to see she is not only alive, but doing well and getting the help she needs.

Juliana Wetmore was born with a severe facial deformity called Treacher Collins Syndrome which mangled what was suppose to be an adorable newborn face. She is beautiful just the same. While her face will need extensive surgery to limit problems and make her life easier, the rest of her is perfectly normal. She uses sign language to communicate because she can't speak or hear yet. She is an incredible little girl. I encourage you to catch the program Born Without A Face on Discovery Health. Our entire family watched it together and we feel very blessed to have learned more about her. You won't ever forget Juliana and your problems will seem miniscule in comparison.

Juliana has something three of our children didn't have. She has LIFE. She can receive and give love. While some would question the value of her life, her parents looked beyond the outside and saw their child. Watch their faces when she goes to surgery. The love they feel for her is so evident. She is a princess to them. The highest paid model pales in comparison to the beauty they see in their Juliana. Clearly, every bit of expense, worry and effort on their part seems a small price to pay for the joy she gives them.

There are many people who think their weight, hang nails, traffic jams, financial problems or a heel blister are worth agonizing over. They get completely wrapped up in life's small aggravations and forget they can continue to reach for and achieve goals. Then they see a child like Juliana struggling but living with gusto enjoying every moment she can. Upon introspect they suddenly realize they are the "disabled" person, not by conditions of birth, but by their attitude that limits them from being and doing more. They realize how very blessed they are, stop whining and start using what God has given them. Instead of questioning the cost to society for their medical needs, why don't we start looking at how much people with medical challenges add to our society? How many people are inspired, touched, motivated, softened or encouraged merely by knowing of their existence?

God sends us people with differences to help the rest of us learn about life and living each day for all it is worth. He gives them to us to add to OUR lives. Their contribution is an asset to society that cannot be measured and is certainly one we cannot afford to lose.

You can learn more about Juliana here:
http://julianawetmoreweekly.com/
http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/juliana/

UPDATE 6/4/06: Nurse Jeanne wrote us to let us know of Juliana's new website at: http://www.julianawetmore.net/

There were two parts of this program that particularly touched us. One was when she had to undergo a medical procedure and she reached out to her Daddy for comfort. He picked her up and gave her the love she needed. The other was when she was drooling and her mother, without a thought, wiped her daughter's mouth with her bare hand. Any loving parent can relate to these two scenes.

Our children really related to the scene where she licks her birthday cake. She can't eat and is fed through a tube in her stomach, but you could tell she liked the taste of that beautiful birthday cake when she turned her head to look at her Daddy like "WOW! Good stuff!"