Wednesday, August 20, 2014


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I wish I could go every day, but responsibility gets in the way.

Ecclesiastes 3

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
 a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
 a time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;
 a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
 a time to seek, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

a time to tear, and a time to sew;

a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
 a time to love, and a time to hate;
a time for war, and a time for peace.

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Prayer Requests

I have mentioned Silas's prayer needs in the blog before. His father needs prayer now. Jon was sent to the ER with elevated temp, stomach burning, and nausea. His gall bladder looked fine. He was released at 5 this morning. The surgeon could not believe the ER let him go home and wants him to go back and be admitted. It could be his liver giving him trouble. He is drove himself back to the hospital. Please pray for this family who have gone through many trials and have remained steadfast in their faith.

Miles is the grandson of a friend of Amanda's. He is 6 months old and has been in the region's children's hospital for over a month. He presented with a fever of 105. He was sent to the ER three times and sent home with the thought he had a cold. The fourth time his grandmother took him to a new place. These doctor's looked closer to see why he was running such a high fever. He has sepsis! They have no idea how he got the infection because there was no wound on his leg. They have operated on his leg three times and installed a drain. At this point, he is stable but still being watched. They will keep him in the hospital for at least two more weeks.

Our friend Chris has stage 4 cancer. He has recently lost sight in one eye due to tumor growing behind his eye. Please pray for Chris.

Thank you to my praying friends and family. We love you!

A Shipment of Peeps

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I pray for our chicks while they are being shipped to us. 
I believe God has blessed us for that with the good mortality rates we have.

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The green gel provides fluids and nutrients to help the chicks while they travel.

We enjoy working with breeds on the Livestock Conservancy List in an effort to save and work with the more rare breeds. In the past, we enjoyed it when people visited and said, "I've never seen one of those before!" 

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turkey poults, 5 each of Royal Palm and Bourbon Red, straight run

To get the best odds of getting a pair with the least amount of investment, buy five. This has never failed me when I am trying to get a male and female pair.

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21 Salmon Colored Faverolles 6 cockerels, 15 pullets
The spots on the heads are a marker to identify the cockerels.

Not only are these on the threatened list, but they are very versatile birds. I've wanted this particular breed for a while. They have some distinct advantages. The chicks are able to be sexed by feathers fairly early with a decent accuracy rate. That is important for sales and for separating the flock. They mature quickly and are a dual purpose bird for meat and eggs. They have five toed, feathered feet, and gorgeous plumage. Most people get hung up on how to pronounce their name.

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6 sexed Toulouse Geese

While Toulouse geese are on the watch list, this wasn't our first choice. We have had Toulouse before and while we like them, we were hoping to work with a different breed. Our choice goose breeds were sold out. However, Toulouse do sell well and are enjoyable birds. Geese are wonderful guardians. They patrol the yard and help to keep predators away.

We only lost one turkey poult out of the entire order, but they sent us five extra birds (42 birds total), so we came out ahead. Hatcheries usually send extra in case of losses. 

Ours came from Cackle Hatchery. We were pleased with the order even though our original hatchery given shipping date was changed which put us in a bit of a bind with our busy schedules and upcoming vacation. This is understandable because you can't possibly know what the birds will lay or what will hatch in the future. We had a little trouble confirming the second shipping date. It was also understandable since it was a hatch day so they were incredibly busy, and they are a growing company. When chicks arrive someone needs to be available to pick them up and watch over them the entire first day to make sure they are all eating and drinking. So you need to know well in advance when the chicks are coming so you can make the time to get them off to the best start.

Monday, August 18, 2014


God’s grace does not come to people who morally outperform others, but to those who admit their failure to perform and who acknowledge their need for a Savior. ~Timothy Keller

James 4:6b God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.

Luke 5:31-32 Jesus answered them, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.  I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance."

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Startling Thought

How have we learned Christ? It ought to be a startling thought that we may have learned him wrong. George MacDonald

Go to the Source! We should primarily be learning who Christ is through His Word and the Holy Spirit, not other people or human-based teachings. Search and study the Scriptures, and know the Word so you won't be deceived.

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. Mathew 7:7

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Hannah Bean

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She is crazy about this guy!
He's crazy about her too!

A dad who can do girly things with his little girl and not care what anyone else thinks is a REAL MAN. ~unknown

Friday, August 15, 2014

Remember My Air Layering Post?

Remember this post where I attempted to air-layer my pear tree? I have concrete evidence it is working! I had to change the container I was using. Three times! First, I needed a more stable container that wouldn't slide down during storms. Then, I needed a larger one that would not dry out so fast. My persistence paid off! As of early June, I had roots!

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Hee is how it looks on the tree. Excuse the weeds.
Things were very hectic on the farm with the additions and all of our travels over the spring and summer. It has been a most terrific spring and summer!

Jeremiah 6:16 This is what the LORD says: "Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. 

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Those Big Boxes of Eggs

In a large family, space is a premium. We really feel that most in a refrigerator! It can be hard getting food for a larger than normal sized family in an average sized fridge! As we use down the box of 15 dozen eggs, kept in our second fridge, the air space in the box is wasted. When we cut the box down, it leaves the eggs vulnerable to breakage. Years ago, we found another way to regain unused space and keep the eggs protected. You can use this idea for boxes in other rooms in the house.

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Wednesday, August 13, 2014

She Needs a Kidney Donor

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Clint and I went to high school with Bunny. She is a very sweet and kind person.
If you feel led, please see if you are a match for her. The info is in the image.
Please, please pray for her to find a match. Thank you for praying for her.

It's is Such a Beautiful, Beautiful Sight!!

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When I was a younger mother, I would cut the all of grass on our place including about half of the weed eating. It varied from 5-7 acres depending on what we decided to keep clear. This isn't the perfectly smooth manicured LAWNS you see in the suburbs either. I live in the rural south. We don't mow lawns; we CUT GRASS here. It is a hot, bumpy ride cutting tough vegetation that might be better called tiny shrubbery. 

Before we go any further, I want to assure you I am not afflicted. I chose to cut the grass as a way to bless my husband and free him up for more time with the children. It was very, very hard cutting all of that grass with very-estrogen-prejudiced equipment while keeping the needs of my active young children met. 

I'd run outside and cut during nap times. I'd keep the slightly older, non-napping children in sight on the deck while I cut a safe distance away in case a mangled GI Joe shot out from the mower blades. If the baby was awake, I'd put them in a swing in the front door so I could see them through the screen. We used hand signals to tell the oldest child to check on the baby every few minutes or for them to tell me they needed me to change a diaper, help them with something, ...or run in, clean up myself, and breastfeed an infant. Of course, my child that needed potty help would have to go every-stinking-five-minutes! 

I'd hop off the mower, put on a load of laundry in the washer, hang the load I just took out on the lines, and hop back on the mower. It wasn't just cutting the grass but picking up the entire yard of things that had been left behind by little hands and feet...and even the husband I was trying to help. When I failed to spot something, I had another 10 minutes added to pick up all of the pieces. Sometimes I'd have to stop cutting the grass and use the mower to herd the goats who decided it was an opportunistic time to escape and enjoy the buffet we call our vegetable garden..or fruit trees..or berry bushes. They didn't really care which as long as it had a high price tag. Goats have expensive taste buds. The more you value it, the more they want it. 

Then there were the May flies, biting gnats, mosquitoes, grasshoppers, tree frogs, and grass spiders that would land on me. Once, I looked over, and there was a very long black snake keeping pace with me. That really creeped me out! I really did want to help Clint out, but I refused to cut that area for the rest of the year. Nope, nada, no sir, no thank you, done, I quit. 

My fair skin still suffered from the sun despite itchy straw hats and sunblock. As my trainer friend informed me, I am an "efficient perspirer" because I often do the heavy kind of work. My body knows how to cool itself quickly. She says it is a good indication of fitness and health. She hasn't seen me when I am dripping wet and completely covered in bits of grass making my already sensitive skin itch like mad. Between the bug bites, sunburn, sweat, and grass bits, I was literally a hot mess! Of course, that was always the time I'd receive the blessing of company. Sigh.

Then I had moments that took a while to get over like when the frightened fledgling robin flew down from a nest straight between the front tires towards the mower deck! There were the scared-silly bunnies which darted back and forth in front of the tires on every single pass!! I tried to "brake" for a turtle and rolled to a stop with the front tire parked right on its shell. Despite their suicide attempts, I never killed anything I saw other than a poor bullfrog. Between the mowing, children, chores, livestock, and wildlife, there were some insane moments! 

With the interruptions, I knew I barely had enough time to get it done, so I put that mower in FIVE and let her ROLL! I didn't slow down for anything except children and critters. Mindful of the weed eating job that followed, I'd cut as close to flowers, herbs, bushes, and trees as I could. Sadly, the vegetation suffered a few minor casualties. I set that deck as low as I could so I didn't have to cut it again so soon. "You'll kill your grass," a friend warned. "Good!" I replied. That is a myth, by the way. I have had the blades eat earth, and the grass still came back!

I'd have to do my day's worth of chores and clean up the mess the children made on the deck. I'd do my best all day and IF the moody mower would cooperate, I'd be nearly done by time Clint got home. Then I'd pray for strength and sometimes an attitude adjustment during a much needed shower while Clint watched the children. Then, we needed a meal, so if I hadn't put one in the crock pot that morning, I had to cook and clean up from that too. Sometimes Clint would take us out to thank me! 

Those were some very hard and very busy years. No matter how challenging the task became, I never thought "I can't." I thought, "I can do this if I can find a way around the obstacles." If something didn't work, I'd analyze the situation, and try to find a way to make it work. While I certainly lost my cool sometimes, I mostly maintained an attitude of joy and thankfulness for the equally hard working man I love, our land and fertile soil, healthy children, milk producing goats, my health and strength, and our "park like yard" as visitors call it. 

Focusing on the blessings kept me appreciating them enough to want to work hard to maintain them in spite of the challenges. Giving my all for my husband and children like that made my husband fall in love with me in a new way. It also showed him I am more than willing to do my fair share of work to reach the goals we set for our family together. Overcoming obstacles and working through challenges built confidence and patience in me. It was hard and nearly drove me crazy sometimes, but it had a lot of value.

There was the time when the mower made this awful noise while blowing chunks of metal all over the yard. Things like that never stop right there. OF COURSE, that was a time the dog had wandered too close, and she was hit by the sharp debris. And OF COURSE, she was scared and ran like crazy from everything, including me. I had to chase her down to check her over. I couldn't reach Clint by phone because that was the same moment things at work became hectic for him. So I put out the word to a brother-like friend who told me it had FINALLY DIED  a blown motor. Killing the thing didn't work. Clint just bought another one...just as ornery as the other.

After reading a little of what it was like maybe now you can imagine how loudly I rejoiced when one of my children's butts was big enough to keep the mower seat compressed so the motor would run! Shortly afterwards, I nearly died from the combined ecstasy when Brandon was taught how to use the weed eater. While I still help when needed, those days of being the main Cutter of the Grass are well behind me. Even so, I STILL get giddy with happiness when I see my children doing it!! 

...because it's NOT ME!!!


Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Our Peachick

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production red chick

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black shoulder peachick

We purchased our peachick from our friend Kris. She gave us the Production Red Pullet to keep the peachick company. We won't know what the gender on the chick is until the feathers change in a few months. The pullet grew so much larger, we eventually swapped it out with a guinea.

Monday, August 11, 2014

Happy Kitties

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They sleep on my other plants, but they LOVE their catnip!

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Do You Love Him Like This?

Ephesians 6:24 Grace be with all them that love our Lord Jesus Christ in sincerity. 
Give and Take

Certain relationships in life require from the parties involved only moderate degrees of devotion. A certain degree of reserve and distance seems to be suitable in such relations as these. But there are other relationships in life where all this is changed when friendship becomes love. Two hearts give themselves to each other to be no longer two, but one. Instead of being separated, their interest and paths are now together. The reserve and the distance suitable to mere friendships is fatal in real love. Love gives all and must have all in return. The wishes of the other party become binding obligations; and the deepest desire of each heart is to know every secret wish and longing of the other, in order that it may do all in its power to gratify those desires. Is that the kind of love, affection, and obedience you have for Christ?

Daily Prayer: Jesus, I say I love You and yet so often it is a selfish, “taking” love. Let me love You in such a way that Your desires will be mine.



"True worship isn't best shown by the comfortable corporate confessions on Sunday, but by your choices of submission Monday through Saturday." Paul David Tripp

Saturday, August 09, 2014

it's clear AS a BELL

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Asbell throws a lot of people. I know it's not just our name. People even managed to mangle Bailey and still try to turn my first name into a weather condition.  On Asbell, people really try hard to work the "sh" sound in there or add an "o".

At 19, as a new bride working in the banking industry, I came up with "clear AS a BELL." It helps 99% of the people I meet. I tell people, if you take those two words and put them together, you will know exactly how to say and spell our name. I don't know what to do for the remaining 1%.  ;-)

Friday, August 08, 2014

Chip! Chip! Chip, Chip!!!

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The Barn Swallows did not use their nest over the front door again this year.

I think that makes the story a bit more special.

They are close by and come frequently to say hi. Chip's parents come in together and sit on the line to talk to me with their clicks and quieter chirps. There is no doubt when Chip is here because of the loud greetings I receive and then the circling over my head! From the way they fly in, I think both Chip and her parents are nesting somewhere on the next road over.

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Recently, I was working in the yard all day moving poultry around, cutting grass, planting plants, converting a hoop house into a multi-rabbit house, and adding a 400 square foot completely enclosed waterfowl pen. Chip came in from behind our farm loudly chirping with a mate flying quietly behind and flew over my head four times. Chip was about to fly over a fifth time when Joshua opened a door and walked out, so Chip flew back the same way she came. I believe she heard me working in the yard and came over just to say hi. (I think Chip is a girl from the coloring but it's been hard to get a good camera shot to check my theory. It's hard to see plumage from the sun's glare.)

The parents even came back and spent a day doing some work to refortify the nest which you can tell from the new, darker mud. They have also put some things in the nest, but I have not looked to see what. As long as the keep the nest in good shape, we will let it stay as a reminder of how God used them to show me His love during my mourning. I Pray He Sends You Swallows and Turtles

They'll be leaving this month. I'll be praying for their protection and provision again and awaiting them next spring.

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Chip's parents sunning on the powerline over our front yard.

Thursday, August 07, 2014

New Figs

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While ornamentals have their place, Clint and I would rather used our acreage to plant something that gives something tangible back. Being business minded, we try to find things that are attractive and will produce something usable like these figs. Once you get figs to grow well, they are considered one of the easiest plants to propagate by cuttings. Not only will you have fruit to eat, but you can also sell off extra fig trees. These are two each of rooted cuttings of three different varieties. We found them through a friend in Oregon.

Wednesday, August 06, 2014

Some Wildlife at Contentment Acres

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Raccoons are always around.

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This opossum looks quite ferocious!

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While we are well aware of their destructive nature, our new groundhog is staying well away from the house, so it's not a problem. This is the first time we've seen one on our place.

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painted turtle

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turkey vulture

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Black vulture, taken through the screen window
These are smaller and tend to be more aggressive than the turkey vultures.

Emily came to me and said, "Mom, there are two really, really, really BIG black birds in the side yard."

Me: "It sounds like crows, sweetheart. Go back to your school work."

Emily with a serious you-need-to-check-this-out-to-make-me-feel-safe tone: "Mom, (pause) it's a CREEPY kind of bird."

I did a double take at how close to the window it was. Then I went to see what had it breaking our understanding of "you stay over there and I'll stay over here." My middle children had left the hose on (FOR HOURS-UGH!) and a pond of clean water had formed. This guy and a buddy came to drink!

Of course, when I see a vulture, I remember Caleb's hilarious efforts to catch one. I didn't let him stop taking baths, but he did put effort into it.

Tuesday, August 05, 2014

I am Happy and Satisfied

Hebrews 13:5 Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Road Way Markers

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If you click to enlarge this picture, you should be able to read the text of this marker in Charlottesville, VA.

I love learning about history, so I try to read roadway markers any time I am a passenger. If I don't get to finish one, I send a text to my email reminding me to look it up here. A Virginia only marker database is here.

Job 8:8-10 For enquire, I pray thee, of the former age, and prepare thyself to the search of their fathers: (For we are but of yesterday, and know nothing, because our days upon earth are a shadow:) Shall not they teach thee, and tell thee, and utter words out of their heart? 

Monday, August 04, 2014

Removing and Relabeling Spice Jar Labels

I love my thrift store bargain found spice rack and really appreciated Olde Thompson sending me a free filled spice jar to replace the one that was broken. There were some jars labeled with spices I rarely use and some of my favorites did not have a spot. So, I decided to see if I could remove the label.

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I tried acetone first, but it didn't work that great. 
A light scraping with a razor worked very quickly.

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I used clear labels in our label maker. I could have probably found a font that was exact, but did not want to put that much time into it. I just used what was preset in the machine. When the jar was put back into the rack no one could spot the one I had relabeled. I relabeled four of them, and it took less than 10 minutes start to finish. Now the spices I use more often are within reach instead of in my spice cabinets. The labels have stayed on for three and a half months of heavy use with no signs of coming off.

Luke 11:42 "But woe to you Pharisees! For you pay tithe of mint and rue and every kind of garden herb, and yet disregard justice and the love of God; but these are the things you should have done without neglecting the others.

Sunday, August 03, 2014

Verse 17 Says You Will Be Blessed If You Take This Attitude

John 13:1-17
Jesus Washes His Disciples’ Feet
1 It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.
2 The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 
3 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; 
4 so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 
5 After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.
6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”
7 Jesus replied, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.”
8 “No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.”
Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.”
9 “Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!”
10 Jesus answered, “Those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet; their whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you.” 
11 For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not every one was clean
12 When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them. 

13 “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. 

14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. 

15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. 

16 Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. 

17 Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.

Saturday, August 02, 2014

Another Osprey Nest We Watch

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She uses her body as a shield against the storm.

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I sat outside in the storm observing until the lightning came. 
She kept looking in the direction the storm came. 
I think she was looking for a break in the clouds.

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I lightened this one so you can see more details on the chicks.

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We fed them fish that had died in our cooler. 
They grabbed them up quickly, but lost a couple to another osprey family.

Friday, August 01, 2014

Prayer Request

Please pray for Clint's cousin. She has health issues that are causing her to retain a tremendous amount of fluid. This is causing her major discomfort and trouble. She has been battling for weeks. It became an emergency about two weeks ago, and she has been hospitalized ever since. It is affecting her heart and other organs. Since other things did not work, she is on dialysis to help remove the fluid. Please pray it works and that she will soon be able to go home soon.

Around Here August 2014

Things have been hopping on the farm. We have enjoyed meeting and making new friends this past month. I love selling plants, produce, eggs, livestock, and more from our little hobby farm. It allows me to contribute a little to our income, use my God given gifts and talents, and remain the stay at home mother God has called me to be.

There's not that much new to report...

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During spring, Clint and I try to take family trips with the children. It keeps us on the move. Once the temperatures start getting steamy, no one wants to go as much. So every July, Clint and I try to take a weekend as a couple. We enjoyed our time alone on the "rivah" to recharge and are looking forward to our 26th anniversary later this month. 

Thank you, Donald of Williamsburg for the nice and thoughtful compliment regarding Brandon. We enjoyed hearing that.

Amanda received a raise and is doing very well as head assistant manager.

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Homeschool is going well for the youngest five. Joshua had to take a big test for his high school course. Evidently it had been overlooked by the staff when we enrolled him. If he did not do well enough, they would have not allowed him to do the course. It seemed silly since he has taken and passed several courses with top grades. He earned a perfect score! He is handling the course work very well. He also has a special friend named Ann.

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Emily enjoyed her birthday.  She loves her new Holland Lop bunny, Rosey! (Thanks Rich! Em loves her!) Rosey did not fare well in our large colony rabbit pen. One of the other rabbits attacked her and injured her ear, so sweet and gentle Rosey now has her own space. 

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If she kept her knees up, the pain was tolerable. 
If she put them down, she was really hurting.
The doctors thought it was appendicitis or a blockage.
It went away on its own.

Hannah has not had any more agonizing tummy pain. Thank you to everyone who communicated their concern and offered to help. Love in action is what Christ exampled! We love our considerate family and friends!

Romans 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Out do one another in showing honor.

John 15:12-15 This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.

Thursday, July 31, 2014

Make Peace, Be Blessed

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Matthew 5:9 Blessed [are] the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Those Parenting Moments

If you have children spaced about 18 months or less apart, you know they will find mischief together. I have two sets of children spaced about that far apart. As of this morning, I have another story to add to my collection. Yiddee and H-Bug decided upon a midnight snack last night. H-bug is in a growth spurt so it makes sense she would be hungrier than normal. I would have happily fed her IF she had asked me. Only, she didn't ask me. 

My little girls raided the fridge together, took a smorgasbord of foods to their beds, and made an enormous mess! Then, I think they fell asleep in what they spilled! Yuck! I woke up to two very sticky little girls, stained clothes, a mattress that had to be thrown out, and a BIG mess to clean up. The mingled food smells weren't easy on the stomach. Blech! So much for the sugar and spice...wait, I think they had some of that on the bed too!!

Em is independent and likes to take care of things she feels should be done. That is a very desirable quality in appropriate situations. "Train up a child" means we encourage what is right and discourage what isn't. It means we give a lot of thought to our parenting, respond with a goal in mind, and don't just react to the situation by letting our frustrations take control. We should discipline with wisdom, grace, and patience with a goal of building and not tearing down. 

I don't want to discourage Emily's independent nature that has her acting where she sees a need, but I am working to teach her wisdom and discretion. For Hannah, we discussed about going to the appropriate person for help and for not going along with doing wrong even if it gives personal gain. I am thankful for experiences like this, as frustrating as they can be on an already busy day, because they give me opportunities to shape their character. 

It also gives an opportunity to to self check myself. Am I exampling self control, patience, forgiveness, etc? This morning, I did OK. If it had been another morning, I may have had to apologize for my reaction. 

Apologize?! To children?!! The Bible tells us to apologize to people when we do wrong. Children are people too!! Humility goes a long way in building strong relationships. Please apologize to your children when you mess up, fellow parent. It will only sting your pride for a moment, but they will love and respect you more for it. Proverbs 11:2 When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom. (Do a Bible study on pride vs humility, and see what is reaped from each.)

Take heart young moms: ALL of us mothers have these types of stories to share; even the mothers who pretend otherwise. Children do crazy things, and like their parents, none of them are perfect. Start seeing "those moments" as divine appointments for parenting and growth for your own walk. Each situation is the perfect opportunity to mold and shape your child for the Lord. Each situation is also used by the Father to mold and shape you for His purpose in your life.

May there be JOY in your parenting!

A Way to Dress Up Those Plastic Storage Containers

If you use the big plastic storage bins made by companies like Rubbermaid and Sterlite, you might enjoy seeing how one mother covered hers to make it attractive.  

Sleuthy Pups

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Nancy Chew is ready to play!

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Sherlock Bones is wondering what the "meow" was.
He had never seen a cat before. Now he has a kitten as a best friend and chew toy.

After hearing so many wonderful things about the breed for many years from dear friends Susan and Jennifer, we decided to add dachshunds to our family and farm. We're just going to ignore the wicked little dachshund stories from Nurse Heather. 

It's time to retire our sweet poodles in our licensed kennel to forever homes, and we decided to try another breed. We'll be raising pet quality dachshunds in a couple of years if all goes well. 

Every once in while, we offer a puppy for free as a way to give back to our friends, family, and community so keep an eye out in the distant future. They go very quickly on a first response basis.

Proverbs 12:10  A righteous man regardeth the life of his beast: but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.

Monday, July 28, 2014

Recognize Your Blessings

As I was distressing that the floor needs to be mopped again this morning, I stopped and realized THAT in itself is 3 blessings. I have a HOME with a FLOOR and a FAMILY to make it need cleaning. In third world countries, a floor is not the norm. Just down the road from me, a neighbor lost their home and everything in it in May. A mother I know lost three of her young children in an accident. She'd be thankful to clean up after them again. I am BLESSED to have a floor with a little dirt on it.

Isaiah 5:20 
Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Wise Words

Proverbs 3:1-12

Good friend, don’t forget all I’ve taught you;
    take to heart my commands.
They’ll help you live a long, long time,
    a long life lived full and well.

Don’t lose your grip on Love and Loyalty.
    Tie them around your neck; carve their initials on your heart.
Earn a reputation for living well
    in God’s eyes and the eyes of the people. 
Trust God from the bottom of your heart;
    don’t try to figure out everything on your own.
Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go;
    he’s the one who will keep you on track.
Don’t assume that you know it all.
    Run to God! Run from evil!
Your body will glow with health,
    your very bones will vibrate with life!
Honor God with everything you own;
    give him the first and the best.
Your barns will burst,
    your wine vats will brim over.
But don’t, dear friend, resent God’s discipline;
    don’t sulk under his loving correction.
It’s the child he loves that God corrects;
    a father’s delight is behind all this.