"Every one says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something
to forgive ... And then, to mention the subject at all is to be greeted
with howls of anger."-C.S. Lewis
"Do not waste time bothering whether you 'love' your neighbor; act as if
you did. As soon as we do this we find one of the great secrets. When
you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to
love him" -C.S. Lewis