Monday, February 28, 2022

From one of my "nieces:"

I wanted to share this without sharing too much of their or my personal information.

I received a very pleasant "Good morning, Aunt Wendy" text. To summarize, she wanted to know my thoughts on store-bought baby foods since that is what is being given to them through a local resource. 

This is what I shared: 

Good morning, Beautiful! 

You made me take a trip down memory lane...

I have wrestled with giving my children something I considered less than ideal when it was readily provided. I like buying clothes for my children, but when people learned I had seven children, they gave me clothing. Lots of clothing. TONS of it. Sometimes I received 40-80 large contractor bags full of clothing. Twice a week. I was often overwhelmed with clothing! 

Some of the clothing was inappropriate and would draw attention to the wrong things. Some supported things, like witchcraft, that God wants us to avoid. Other clothing just wasn't my personal taste. 

After praying and reading Scripture, I knew I was to receive it all with thanksgiving. God provided. How I used it was up to me as I tried to be a faithful steward. The clothing that was too revealing or had inappropriate words was in violation of God's plan for modesty. I still often found a use for them as cleaning and automotive rags, bedding for our dogs, fabric to sew things like potholders, doll clothes, pillows, stuffing for pillows, eyeglass holders, sachets, rice bags (the kind you heat up in the oven to warm your hands/feet), etc. A friend tore clothes like that into strips and made really nice braided rugs from them. The clothes that were OK by Biblical standards but not my preference, we let them wear for farm chores or painting crafts. There were still plenty of clothes for wearing around the house, going to church, and out to eat. I also gave a lot of clothing away. God provided an abundance, and it was nice to be able to bless others.

If I had not made use of those clothes and many other things God provided, my husband and I would not be where we are today. That frugal stewardship helps the money grow year by year. We now have (removed for privacy). We are set to (removed for privacy) in 2026, again, Lord willing. Obeying God in stewardship played a large role in where we are now. 

God provided the baby food, so you can give thanks for it and use it without any fears. You can still make your own food for your baby and alternate between store-bought and homemade. The baby food can also be used to make cold teething cubes (freeze them in ice cube trays and let the baby gnaw on them through one of those mesh things). 

What God has provided is not exclusive to the baby. You can make use of them too. They can be added to soups and stews to thicken them, put into meatloaf to add some hidden nutrition, used in smoothies, or added to brownie and cake mixes. God provided. The responsible stewardship of it is your choice. 

Love to all of you from all of us!

I guess I hit a home run:

Thank you so much!!! I needed this! We really want to (paragraph removed for privacy). And thank you so much for that amazing food advice, I never thought of using baby foods those ways. ... Thank you for always being such an open book of wisdom for me!

At the beginning of the conversation, she apologized for dumping on me. I do not feel that way at all. My family and friends are welcome to contact me anytime day or night, and I will try to do my very best for them. You might have to wait until I can fit you into the queue, but I try to reply.


Sunday, February 27, 2022

Pray for Walter

Feb 27 a.m.- Walter is being discharged to go home as I type this. He does not have an NG tube.

Feb 26 a.m.-"Walters feeding trial is not going exactly as we hoped but they are going to keep him on it unless he vomits again. He has been up since 330 and is currently refusing a bottle after vomiting straight formula at 630. They are planning to do an X-ray to check NGtube placement in case we have to start using that again for feeds. They said one vomit during trial is ok but they don’t want more than that in the 24hr period."

Feb 24 a.m.- Walter is tolerating feeds through an NG tube well. He is not happy he can't eat by mouth and wants more food. He will have a swallow study sometime today if all goes well. Sarah says he's not out of the woods yet, but he's well on his way.

Feb 23rd: p.m.- Walter has been extubated and is breathing on his own. He can be held and comforted by his parents. He still has a long way to go, but he's making good progress.

a.m.-Walter is still in peditric ICU. He is fighting the sedation which is a good sign. He needs the sedation because he is intubated. Please keep praying for him. All of this is due to where they had to repair the connection from his mouth to his stomach when he was born. He was born without part of his esophagus. This area is weak and keeps closing on him causing the frightening choking episodes. Thank you for praying for my "niece's" son. My love to all!

Feb 22nd: Baby Walter had a choking episode right after a doctor's appointment at CHKD. It was very severe, and he went into cardiac arrest. He is now in the pediatric ICU. Please keep him in prayer.

Look to the Source

 How can you call God the source of your strength 
when He is not the source of your standards?!
Line up your walk with the Word!
-S. Bralley

If you love me, keep my commands.
John 14:15

Saturday, February 26, 2022

7 Purposes of the Tribulation

Daniel 9:24 

Seventy weeks are determined upon thy people and upon thy holy city, 

1. to finish the transgression, and 
2. to make an end of sins, and 
3. to make reconciliation for iniquity, and 
4. to bring in everlasting righteousness, and 
5. to seal up the vision and 
6. prophecy, and 
7. to anoint the most Holy.
Daniel 9:24

The Tribulation is the wrath of God. It is not judgment as some are calling it. 

During a judgment from God, a person or group of persons can repent and the judgment will stop. This wrath will not stop and will be continued through to completion to accomplish the above. 

As I have stated before, I have studied the end times extensively. I had around 100 hours invested in end times Bible studies just in 2021. I have diligently sought the Lord for understanding and wisdom. I describe myself not as a person with a lot of answers, but as a person who had a lot of questions and went seeking the answers from the Source. I do not claim to know it all or have it all right, but I know this for certain, there will be a very hard existence, massive persecution, and a continual threat of death for those left behind on the earth. That includes the ones who come to believe in Jesus after the rapture.

While the Church (people who came to faith under the period of grace) will not be present in the Tribulation, the Tribulation saints (people who come to faith during the Tribulation) will not be supernaturally protected. Before one writes to tell me how wrong I am, please go read Revelation.

Revelation 13 tells us the Beast is given authority over the saints. What do you think that this evil being will do with his God-given authority over the Tribulation saints? Revelation 17 talks about the woman being drunk on the blood of the Tribulation saints. Revelation 20 shows us an altar of beheaded saints. The Mark of the Beast is all about sorting out who is on which side. 

The upcoming Tribulation will be an unimaginably horrific time on earth. You do not want to go through it! The Bible has this to say about it: "because it will be a time of great trouble. There will be more trouble than has ever happened since the beginning of the world. And nothing as bad as that will ever happen again. But God has decided to make that terrible time short. If it were not made short, no one would continue living. But God will make that time short to help the people he has chosen." Matthew 24:21-23

Dear Reader, 

If you do not believe in Jesus, I encourage you to call out to Him for salvation right now. Do not delay! If you need to talk to someone, contact me through the email in the header.

If you are a believer, then I encourage you to share the gospel every chance you can. You can share Bible verses, gospel tracts (The cartoon ones have been very effective for our family.), start conversations, give your testimony, support ministries with a strong focus on evangelism, etc. You can share in person or on social media. On platforms, you can make your own posts or leave grace-filled comments that many will see. Join in the harvest instead of sitting idly by. 

The Rapture of the Church is imminent. Imminent means it is the next expected event. Nothing else has to be accomplished before the Rapture can take place. There are no precursors that must happen. It can happen in the next hour or 10 years from now. The point is that it can happen at any time. This means that right now actively or passively, you are making a choice to be included or excluded in that event. Make a wise choice.

My love to all!


Paint and Amanda's Meg

A text from Amanda: "I've been painting my house off and on for a while. I'll get done eventually...but while painting the other evening. Meg decided to jump on the chair and landed in the paint tray. The next thing I know, I've got a freaking out kitten running through my house getting paint EVERYWHERE. I got her right before she jumped on my couch. Bathed her. Then cleaned up all the paint. It's hard to catch a cat that's half covered in paint while trying not to step in the paint!" 

Ha!

Thursday, February 24, 2022

Seeing Roots

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I have tried suspending sweet potatoes in water with toothpicks. It worked OK, but I was not impressed. It was lengthy and the water needs frequent changing. This year, I am doing the soil method in a cold frame. I am loving it so far! We will see what happens in a few weeks.

My cold frame is an old sandbox my children played in for many years with repurposed window panes on top of it. It's not very pretty, but it was free and was very simple to make.

Wednesday, February 23, 2022

Looking for a great seed company?

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We have been very pleased with every order from Seeds for Generations.
I have spent about $250-300 with them on books and seeds over four or five orders.
Every order has been a positive experience.
I highly recommend the company.

On Our Way Again!

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Tuesday, February 22, 2022

Are Sams Club prices cheaper?

Are Sams Club prices always cheaper?

I check prices on many items every week down to the price per pound or ounce. It depends on what it is. As far as Sams goes, I can get better deals on quite a few items through Walmart. Keeping a price notebook on what you regularly buy is invaluable. It use to be that if you purchased a larger container, you got a price break, but that is not true any longer. I have also found the unit price breakdown to be wrong on websites now and then. If you want to save all you can, you have to price compare and do the math.

How to Fill Raised Beds and Containers without Breaking the Bank

I fill my raised beds and containers (old bathtubs, old refrigerators/freezers, 55 gallon barrel halves, old pots, 5-gallon buckets, etc) based off of the Hügelkultur growing method. I first fill it with debris that will compost over time and feed the plants. The depth will determine how much and the size of material I use. I finish filling from my compost bin.

I get bags of leaves, pine straw, sticks, grass clippings off of curbs for my garden. I also go through areas and pick up downed limbs, rotting trees, etc. Gardening will be as cheap or as expensive as you choose for it to be. Thinking outside of the box and being very resourceful will go a long, long way to keeping costs down.

My love to all. Happy Gardening!!

How I Make Inexpensive "Clothes" for a Tiny Dog (Quick and Easy)

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Maggie is tiny. Her body is less round than a canning jar. I have tried buying her XS and XXS coats from the pet store when they were on sale. They do not stay on her. She also hates them.

This is what I do for her. I love it because it does not cost me a lot of money or time. She does not work to get out of them like she has other "clothes." She will come to me when I hold one out so I can put it on her, so I am pretty sure she likes them.  

I take a sock (usually an old one) and cut it like you see above for her. I have the end folded over so it fit into the picture. If you look, you can see where I cut holes for her front legs. I make x cuts and then stretch it for her skinny little legs. I do not hem it or anything.  To put her on it, I roll it up like a sock :-) and pull it over her head.

When I shared how I use socks for Maggie on FB, I had people write me telling me I needed to find someone who can make her custom clothing. "They only charge me $50 per outfit plus shipping!" LOL! I don't normally spend that much on MY clothes. LOL!!

There is a very common misconception that love is equal to the amount of money spent. That fallacy perpetuates materialism.

I love my little poodle. She is very dear to me and has been a fun companion for 11-12 years now. I am not going to spend a lot of money on clothes to keep her warm for a few weeks in winter. The rest of the time they are in storage. I prefer to make the money I get to work a lot harder than that for my family.

Maggie's favorite sock to wear is an OLD wool sock that our family took turns wearing for many years. The companion to it bit the dust, so I turned the survivor into a "coat" for Maggie. She has worn it during the worst of our winters for several years now. It's not pretty, but I am proud of my stewardship of our finances and resources which honors the Lord and blesses my family. 

Those pennies I pinched until they screamed became screaming quarters which became screaming dollars which ended up becoming financial investments that give my family a very good return every month. When I share with younger people what we have now, they really want it for themselves. However, most are not willing to make those sacrifices to get to that destination.

Monday, February 21, 2022

How to Garden, Where to Start Gardening, Tips for New Gardeners

I wrote this to help a group of young women. I am sharing this here for anyone else who can use it. I believe we should help each other along as much as possible right now. 


Anything new can be overwhelming at first, but as soon as you get some knowledge and experience under your belt, it will become easier and you will gain confidence. Here are some steps you can work through one thing at a time. It's a lot of information, but some of it will help you avoid things that can determine your sucess or failure. You can use these short notes of mine as jumping points to start your own research and expand your knowledge base so your skill level will go up quickly.

Figure out your growing zone. You can learn that info by your address through an online search.

The very next thing I would do is join gardening groups or forums specific to your area. They may be based on the growing zone, zip code, or the name of your location. Find local agencies that help people learn to grow their own food. For me, we have a Master Gardener's association and Virginia Cooperative Extension. 

Seek out the gardeners in your area who have experience growing edible gardens. They can save you some disappointment. I've learned tomatoes do not do well for me in 5-gallon buckets because of the heat we get as early as late May. They stop producing in May if I do put them in buckets. If I keep them in the ground, they keep right on putting out the fruit because the ground keeps their roots cooler.

Seed to Spoon is an app that will tell you what you can start inside or sow outside right now by your growing location. I do not know if it works for Canada. I am in the US. I have lists of when I can start things printed out. I am using this tool to add to my lists.

Figure out how much space you have and what the conditions are in those different areas are. That will dictate what and how much you can grow. I have very shady to very sunny spots with some spots always underwater and other areas that get very dry in the summer.

Will you garden on window sills, containers, in the ground in grows, in a raised bed, or do like me and use a combination? You need to know what and how much you can grow in each. 

Figure out the main crops you want to grow. I have a large family and look out for a few others, so I need a lot of food. With that in mind, I researched the heaviest yielding crops that do well where I live when I started gardening a long time ago.

Soil temperature is a more reliable way to plant than by the calendar. The calendar is useful as a general rule of thumb. If the temp is too cold or too warm to germinate, the seed will sit there and rot. Just because it is a certain date does not mean the ground is ready. There are online sites you can check to get the soil temperature in your area. 

Research heirloom and hybrid seeds. Learn the pros and cons. 

Research the growing issues in your area (online forums, groups, neighbors who garden), and buy varieties that are more resistant to those issues. For example, I tried growing old heirloom varieties of squash that are more resistant to vine borers.

Buy good quality seeds. Some people are repackaging old seeds and selling them online. Seeds for Generations (family-owned and run) has been very good about filling my orders. Their seeds have had excellent germination rates. And, I have bought a pile of seeds from them...at least $150 worth.

For those in the states, I have not had good success from DollarGen store seeds. They also have fewer seeds per package and cost more. Dollar Tree has had seeds that germinated well and they are a quarter a package in my Hampton Roads. They also have more seeds per package than DollarGen.

Look up your local feed and seed store. I have never purchased bad seeds from the two I use in my area. Some seeds can be purchased by the pound for less money and will give you a few years' worth of seeds for less money. I buy seeds I know will last 5-6 years this way.

Save the seeds you get from produce in the grocery store. All of the squashes, pumpkins, watermelons (seeded) have germinated well for me. The hybrid tomatoes and green peppers have not done well for me. 

Consider the grocery store a source of seeds. Dried beans will sprout. .7 grams of black-eyed peas from a seed company costs 1.99. I can buy the same seeds from the grocery store for 1.48 a pound and come out way ahead. Lentils, brown rice, fennel and celery seeds, millet (not just for birds), and many other things will sprout and grow. Roots and rhizomes will grow. You may need to be patient while you wait for any root inhibitors to wear off. 

Buy sprouting seeds. I have found bulk seeds cheaper per ounce sold as sprouting seeds.

Learn how to store seeds properly so they will be viable longer. 

I keep the bulk of my seeds in folders in two plastic file boxes. I write their growing needs including soil temperatures to germinate on the outside of the folders so I always have it accessible.

To start my plants indoors (cause this girl is not paying $5 per tomato plant), I use

Barrina LED T5 Integrated Single Fixture, 4FT, 2200lm, 6500K (Super Bright White), 20W. You get six for $45 on Amz. I cut the plastic covers off to increase the light. These lights are sufficient to start plants for planting outside. It can also grow leafy greens to harvest. I have also grown microgreen successfully under these lights. For something that needs to flower (squash, beans, etc) that you want to grow completely inside, you will need full-spectrum growing lights. However, these are a cheap way to get your own plants going. I use three of these lights per shelf.


For most setups, keep the started plants very close to the lights (about an inch under), I get them close by putting shipping boxes I cut underneath the plant trays. I cut the box down to size and turn it upside down to support the plant tray. I cut the platform down a bit as they grow and eventually send it to the compost pile. Keeping the plants close to the lights keeps them from being leggy and weak from light deprivation. If you have a fan circulating air around your seedlings, they will be stronger and will do better when hardening them off. 


Hardening them off is basically introducing them very slowly and very carefully to the outdoor growing environment. Watch your plants carefully when you are hardening them off. In the mornings, I put mine on the shady side of the house with some protection from the wind. I check them every 15 minutes on the first day. I leave them out until I notice they are just starting to droop a tiny bit. Then I bring them back indoors. The next day, I try to go a bit longer and so on until they can stay out overnight. I use an alarm on my phone so I do not forget to check on them. Think of them as nervous and anxious little friends who need to go slowly with breaks.

Do the board method for planting carrots or other tiny seeds. This information is available on YouTube. I use that and also make my own carrot seed tape (also on YouTube) because I put carrots in small areas where I can't place a board.

For everything you do, there will be some who say you can't do it. Ignore the naysayers and don't be afraid to try. For example: I use grocery store potatoes for my garden. My family has done it successfully for generations. 

I use intensive planting. Why give a weed room to grow when an edible can grow there just as easily. For many things that has worked well for me. However, sometimes it hasn't. I learn from it and keep moving forward.

If you cut the top 2" or more off of a carrot or parsnip and plant them, they should grow and you can get seeds from them this year. You will not get another big edible root though. I have parsnips growing on my windowsill right now in my home for this purpose. Celery and many other vegetables from the grocery store will regrow. This information is also freely available on the internet.

Do a soil test (kit here #amazonaffiliate "As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.”) to find the nutrient analysis of your garden soil so you will know what to put down to help your plants grow. 

Research natural fertilizers and learn how to use them. For example: I grow comfrey for this and medicinal purposes.

Learn the common pests in your area and how to combat them. Everything living outdoors is trying to do what we are trying to do...survive. Don't make your garden an easy place to get an easy meal. 

Sow your different varieties of the same crop (corn for example) far enough away from each other they won't cross pollinate so your saved seeds will be true to type. 

Don't be easily discouraged. If at first you don't succeed, try, try, try again. Just keep experiementing. I plant seeds in different situations each year to learn what works the best for me.

Instead of watching frivolous things that do not add value to your life, choose to watch gardening shows and youtube videos. You can rest your body and learn at the same time.

When my family asks me what I want for a gift, I ask for fruit trees and berry bushes. I've done this for many years now. It really adds up over time. I don't buy cut flowers, but I will buy a potted herb that can be used for medicine, bug repellent, or as a seasoning.

Gardening is a worthwhile skill to develop. In my opinion, it should be taught in our schools since everyone needs to eat every day. I homeschooled my seven. They all know how to properly save and store seeds, propagate by air layering and other methods, grow their own food, harvest it, and perserve it. My oldest daughter has been growing tomato plants in her spare bathroom all winter. She's been cutting and rooting the suckers to make new plants. She already has more plants than she needs and is gifting my oldest son and I with several plants this year.

Happy Gardening! My love to all!
 
 

He's incredible!

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Another thing he can do is install HVAC systems.
This was his first one, and he did fantastic!
Clint has never been afraid to TRY.

The Lord sends us young men (15-40 year olds) who want to learn and are thankful for the opportunities Clint gives them to do just that. When opportunities open up, Clint is teaching them skills that can change their lives. And that, is yet another thing that makes Clint so special!

Sunday, February 20, 2022

I John 2:3-15

Love and Hatred for Fellow Believers

We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands. Whoever says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. But if anyone obeys his word, love for God is truly made complete in them. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did.

Dear friends, I am not writing you a new command but an old one, which you have had since the beginning. This old command is the message you have heard. Yet I am writing you a new command; its truth is seen in him and in you, because the darkness is passing and the true light is already shining.

Anyone who claims to be in the light but hates a brother or sister is still in the darkness. 10 Anyone who loves their brother and sister lives in the light, and there is nothing in them to make them stumble. 11 But anyone who hates a brother or sister is in the darkness and walks around in the darkness. They do not know where they are going, because the darkness has blinded them.

Reasons for Writing

12 I am writing to you, dear children,
    because your sins have been forgiven on account of his name.
13 I am writing to you, fathers,
    because you know him who is from the beginning.
I am writing to you, young men,
    because you have overcome the evil one.

14 I write to you, dear children,
    because you know the Father.
I write to you, fathers,
    because you know him who is from the beginning.
I write to you, young men,
    because you are strong,
    and the word of God lives in you,
    and you have overcome the evil one.

On Not Loving the World

15 Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. 16 For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world. 17 The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.

Saturday, February 19, 2022

Twinkie

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I once had a little dog I liked a lot.
I named her Twinkie because she was not much bigger than one.
She was full of energy and so much fun!
Calm Caleb had her first, but their personalities were not a good fit.

When Amanda moved, I asked her if she wanted Twinkie.
I knew I'd miss the lively little dog, but I knew Amanda needed an extra set of eyes and ears
...and some company.

It worked out better than I could imagine.

Twinkie seemed to know what her new role was and bonded quickly with Amanda.
She lets Amanda know when she hears something different.
Much to Amanda's dismay, fearless Twinkie will also run off large dogs from Amanda's yard.

Friday, February 18, 2022

Thursday, February 17, 2022

What He Calls Me

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It is a picture of an email header with C Dawg as the sender and The Beautiful and Sexy Mrs. Asbell as the recipient.

Wednesday, February 16, 2022

Regarding Colleges

I was asked what colleges we used for our children. Like we did with educating our children, my husband and I took it to the Lord. Like He did with that, we felt Him leading us differently. We had a choice, trust Him and walk where He led or do what everyone else was doing. 

We were very blessed that we had solid guidance and excellent examples in our lives of how well alternative colleges work. These were people who had home-educated their children or were adults who themselves were home-educated. These godly influences have been and continue to be very valuable assets in our lives from starting homeschooling to high school to college to planning our retirement and so very much more. They don't mind listening to us bounce ideas off of them, and they have been very frank in sharing what has worked and what hasn't. Strong godly friendships are treasures in this world.

Here's the answer I shared:

What we did was call around to the HR departments of the best employers in our area and asked them what they liked to see. James Madison and Penn Foster were the colleges mentioned by most of them. Why go into enormous debt if the people doing the actual hiring don't care about the name but only the accreditation? especially since many people don't even work in their chosen degree's field. 

James Madison would not allow our 13-year-old to start high school with them, so we used Penn Foster for high school because they were willing to work with us. She took a test to prove she could handle the work. Then Penn Foster would not let her start college at 14, so we used James Madison because they would. LOL! She earned her degree at 16.

For our son in IT where certifications, not degrees, are the norm, we told him to get the degree AND certifications to give himself an edge. That advice worked beautifully for him. He was the youngest person (19 yo) ever hired by a company to run two industrial plants' IT departments. He earned the job over several other people who had worked in the industry for decades. He now oversees 5 industrial plants across the nation and is being encouraged to take another bigger promotion.

Even if they are skill-based like my third born son (construction), we recommended a college degree (which he earned). We told all of our children, "Skills open certain doors, and degrees open other doors. Having both opens even more doors. Life is long, and you do not know what changes and challenges are ahead. It is wise to make yourself as attractive to as many employers as you can." 

That's where God led us. So far, it has worked out very well for our oldest five children. Emily has started high school. Hannah will next year. At this point in time, both of them feel like they want to get degrees. 

Tuesday, February 15, 2022

George Again!!

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George, our perpetual snowman, lives!! We have been keeping (part of) his head in the freezer since around 1996. So, that part of him is about 26 years old. We mix the old in with the new snow every year and keep him going. It's fun to have a bowl labeled "George's Head" in our freezer for visitors to see. This has been a fun family tradition!

Hannah made George a little buddy named "Snowy.

(pictures taken in January)

Monday, February 14, 2022

STAND apart from this world

And now, dear children, continue in him, so that when he appears we may be confident and unashamed before him at his coming.
I John 2:28

If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved; yet so as by fire. I Corinthians 3:15


Thankful and proud

Last night, two of our children were invited to hang out with a group of friends. Our two joined the others in attending worship at a local church. Then they all went out to eat, visited a park, and decided on going to a movie. They were to hang out at a local beach afterward. 

My children had not heard of the movie, so they did not know what it was about. That movie became very vulgar. Our children let the others know that movie was not something they wanted to watch. Their friends refused to leave. 

Clint and I are very thankful that our children left their friends behind rather than compromise their values.

Saturday, February 12, 2022

Warming up after a bath

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sweet snuggles

Clint has named his puppy Ratchet.

Friday, February 11, 2022

Bethany's Pin Cushion

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Sometimes I see things as I walk through a room and have to back it up.
When I saw this, I instantly had flashbacks of Pinhead from Hellraiser which I watched as a teen.

My children like to leave odd things like this right where I can find them. 
They are hoping for a smart comment.
I rarely disappoint :-).

Bethany sews and was using this octopus as a pincushion.
She has many of these octopus plushies.
One of her brothers saw it and moved some of the needles around to mess with her. Then they left it so I could find it.
Poor little octopus!

Thursday, February 10, 2022

Rooting Herbs from the Grocery Store

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I buy fresh-cut herbs from the grocery store, bring them home, cut new ends on them, and let them sit in water for a couple of hours. Then, I remove all except a few leaves, coat the ends in raw honey, and stick them in rockwool. You can do it in a glass with water, but the rockwool almost always guarantees success for me. Fresh cut herbs are $1-2 a bundle/package. With a little patience, I can get several plants from each package, have fresh herbs to use, and have some to harvest at the end of the season.


That's MISTER Stud

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He says they named the board after him. I told him they did and then told him to get back to work.
:-)
Some of our high school friends nicknamed him Mr. Stud many years ago due to our family size.

Wednesday, February 09, 2022

Prayer please

 Our family could use intercession, please. Thank you!

Pray for a Friend

2/8: Renee has severe tearing in the ligaments of her wrist. She may have to have surgery, but she has to wait to see a specialist who will tell her more.

1/23: Renee has new swelling in her arm near her wrist. She is scheduled for an MRI sometime soon. It has been five months since her CoVid shot reaction. She has been in a lot of pain and has not been able to use her arm much at all since that time. They strongly suspect what is going on with her arm now is related. I can not imagine her frustration especially since she has a grandson she wants to hold. 

11/12/2021 From Renee: I wanted to thank everyone for all the prayers while I was in the hospital for a week in the end of September’ and then back and forth to the hospital to get IV antibiotic infusions daily for the following 15 days. Along with Wound Care for my arm; at first 3x/week, now down to 1x/week. I saw the surgeon today (6 weeks post-op) and he said everything looks good and he wants me to start therapy for my shoulder. Due to its lack of being used for the last 2-1/2 months, he thinks it is needed to get my range of motion back. As I enter what I hope are the last phases of my recovery, your continued prayers are much appreciated. I would have never imagined all this could happen from getting a vaccine.

October 27: Renee is finished with the IV antibiotics and the wound vac! PTL!

Update October 19:  They added two days to Renee's IV antibiotic treatment. She finished that Monday. She is still going back and forth to the hospital to have the wounds cleaned and repacked. She still has the wound vac. She may have to do this for another two weeks!! Please keep her in prayer. She is still having pain. 

Update Oct 8: Renee is going back and forth to the hospital every day to receive IV antibiotics and to have her wounds tended. They are repacking the gauze in the cavities in her arm every day. She also has a wound vac. She said she is still in quite a bit of pain. 

Update Oct 4: Renee is home. She says she feels a tiny bit better and is still having pain. 

Update Oct 2: Renee has been in the hospital since the 27th. They told her she could go home Friday, then today Saturday. Now, they are holding her off on going home until Sunday evening. Please pray for her healing and pain relief.

My lifelong friend Renee had an adverse reaction to the CoVid-19 vaccination. Her arm became inflamed and swollen for a month after the shot. She had an abscess open and drain for two days before she could get to a doctor. The doctor wanted her to have surgery, but they couldn't see her for another week. So, she was sent to the ER. They did a CT scan and found she had multiple abscesses. They performed surgery to open and drain them. Then they packed them so they could heal from the inside out. She developed sepsis and has been in the hospital most of this week. Please pray God will ease her pain and fully heal her.

Thank you to all who lift up a prayer for Renee's healing.

Maggie in a Tube Sock

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Maggie, my sassy and smart toy poodle, weighs about 3 pounds. I try not to shave her coat in the winter, but sometimes it knots so badly there is nothing else to do. She is so tiny a recycled wool tube sock makes a better coat for her than the pet store clothes that never fit. Everyone thinks she is a puppy due to her size. She will be 11 years old this March.

Tuesday, February 08, 2022

be aware and scan

My father taught me to be aware and scan my vehicle, underneath, around the tires, and look in the windows as I approached it. I still practice that consistently today. Clint and I have instructed our children to do the same. You can spot a fluid leak or avoid a tire puncture. If this lady had been taught automobile situational awareness, perhaps she would have seen him through her hatchback window on her approach. 

"I was on my way to school and I got into my car and onto the highway, and he had hid in the hatchback," the woman said Monday, according to WXIX-TV. "He was waiting for me. He jumped in the front seat and started beating me. I didn’t know he was in my car."


Dear Reader, Jesus told us the world would become more evil in the last days, so it is not a surprise to see things like this happening. Besides prayer, there are many ways we can actively work towards being safer. How do practice situational awareness in your day to day? What have you taught your children or grandchildren about awareness and safety? I am praying for each of you to be kept safe and to learn to practice better personal, family, and home safety. My love to all. 

Torn Nail Repair

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I knicked my nail on the sharp blade of a power tool. Later, it started to tear. If the tear is not too far into the nail bed, I will just rip it off and keep going.

However, this was going to go too deep. When that has happened in the past, my work has been hindered by the need to protect the exposed nail bed. It's been through trial and error that I have found a way to keep the nail intact and allow it to grow out until the torn section can be trimmed off. This method has been working very well for me for a few years now so I thought I'd share it. 

I superglue the nail tear from the top and run a couple of lines of glue under the nail to secure it to my skin. The ends of my fingers get bumped a lot over the course of a day which will make the torn nail flex and the repair weaken. That extra bit under the nail really makes a difference in adding stability and durability. 

Next, I trim down a piece of waterproof first-aid tape to fit over the tear. Then, I cover that with a thin layer of superglue. I repeat that a few times until I get a nice thick layer. This holds up very well for me no matter if I am working with abrasive materials or using chemicals. I can have my hands in water for hours, and the repair stays strong. I check it once a day and see if I need to apply a few more layers of glue. 

Monday, February 07, 2022

Gildan men's briefs in Dollar Trees for $1.25 per 4 pack

We found Gildan men's briefs in our Dollar Trees selling 4 pack for $1.25 which is 31¢ a pair. A pack of 6 is 13.87 at Walmart which comes out to $2.31 a pair. The packages do not say irregular. I hope some of you can take advantage of the deal also.

A sweet friend of mine in Ohio says she has found Gildan socks in her Dollar Trees.

Roads are Not Necessary

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It is fun to go off-roading with Clint.
He knows so many unmapped trails we can take to camp overnight.
He's even found unused old trails and reminded a few park rangers of them.

Saturday, February 05, 2022

Friday, February 04, 2022

A great source for heirloom seeds

I just placed another order with Seeds for Generations which is run by a family in Virginia. I highly recommend them! I have been very pleased with every order!

Self Esteem Struggles

I've been told this has been very helpful, so I try to share it every so often.

Originally posted August 31, 2019


For the Hurting: How God Sees You: Recognize Your Reality

Please excuse the typos. This is something I put together very quickly recently to help someone. I shared something similar years ago, but it must have been accidentally deleted while preparing the blog for a backup. This is a battle I know well because this is how I had to fight my own severe internal struggles. Those who have heard my full spoken testimony say it is very powerful. The reason it is powerful is the Truth you will find in these verses. I had to repeat something very similar to the first paragraph many, many times to myself. Sometimes I have to remind myself again. None of the lies of the enemy or the lies of others can stand in the light of God's Word.
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Dear one, you are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of your loving Creator. You are so precious in the Lord's sight that He knit you in your mother's womb (a hands-on, individual, and detailed work), knows the numbers of hairs on your head (cares about the details of your life), and collects your tears in a bottle so He can wipe them away Himself later (a tender, deeply caring and loving Father). 

You are precious to Him! While only the wealthy and famous have earthly bodyguards, He has set His angels (Heavenly bodyguards) to watch over you. He has chosen and appointed you, called you from darkness to light, and loves you so deeply He gave His son to die to pay your penalty for your sins so you could be heirs with Christ and bear fruit that will last an eternity. He calls you a chosen race, a royal priesthood, His friend, a member of His household, and tells you that through Christ, you are a conqueror and an overcomer! 

His love and mercy for you have no end! He has removed your sins as far as the east is to the west...infinitely apart from you! If the God of the universe can show you unending love and mercy, don't you think you can show yourself a little too? Find your worth in what Jesus has done for you. A Holy Magnificent Almighty God, who even notices you or I, and then gives His Son to die for us while we were still filthy in our sins...places a very, very, very high value on us....we are priceless! Your value is right there in what Jesus did. An all-seeing, all-knowing, all-powerful God deemed you worth dying for! 

Let that hurt that hinders you, and that you are holding onto so tightly go, and grab ahold of God's truth about who you are ...and get to work learning more about Him, doing what He has asked of you, and living for Him so others may see through your life what He has given you and also offers to them. Drink deeply from His Word, His love letter to you. Now, go back and read this again, slowly, and let the words sink in until you recognize your reality.
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Don't fall for the deception of the "imposter syndrome." This syndrome is identified by feelings of unworthiness and failure which cannot be erased even in face of a wealth of information that proves that the opposite is true. Break free from that. There's plenty of proof in the verses below to convince anyone of God's love for and value of them. Don't let your fear/self-doubt/deep hurt keep you from being free.

Don't allow any negative self-talk. Renew your mind, transform it with God's Word. Every time you have a negative thought towards yourself, challenge it with God's view of you. Self-discipline to bring your view of self into line with God's Word. It will take time and repetition. You are worth the effort. As you undertake this, show yourself grace.

Be your own best friend. If you would not say it to your most loved relative or friend, don't say or think it about yourself. If you do, you are your own enemy! Be your own encourager!

Don't fall for the deception that God's Word is for everyone except you. Beat down so low I could not raise my head to see God's love for me, I felt that as a young person. It followed me into early adulthood. Sometimes we can be so damaged down by other people's words, opinions of us, and actions towards us that we feel like it is impossible for anyone to love us, even God. It's not true!! He loves you! He loves you! He really, truly does love you with a pure, unfailing love that is unlike any love you've ever experienced. He loves you! Post it on your wall, set it as the wallpaper on your devices, set reminders so your personal assistant announces it every so often, put alarms in your phone to remind you, repeat it to yourself often. Repeat it until you believe Him! He loves you! 

Does God lie? No!!! Then believe what He says about you and your worth to Him.


Read what God has done for you and what He thinks of you. Read them aloud. There is healing for you in these words. I believe there is power in the spoken Word. 

The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love. Psalm 103:8

In fact, even the hairs on your head are all numbered. Do not be afraid; you are more valuable than many sparrows. Luke 12:7

You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book. Psalm 56:8 

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. Revelation 21:4

You were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.  1 Corinthians 6:20

For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His love for those who fear Him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him. Psalm 103:11-13

Since you are precious in My sight, Since you are honored and I love you, I will give other men in your place and other peoples in exchange for your life.  Isaiah 43:4

I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. John 15:15-16

And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into His image with intensifying glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:18

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalm 139:14

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2

Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 1 Peter 5:6 

Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I entrust my life. Psalm 143:8 

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline. 2 Timothy 1:7

Glorify the LORD with me; let us exalt his name together. I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears. Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame. . Psalm 34:3-5

Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone. In him, the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord. And in him, you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit. Ephesians 2:19-22

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.  1 Peter 2:9

So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to Him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. Romans 8:1-2

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses so that the power of Christ can work through me. That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 

The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease. Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each morning. Lamentations 3:22-23

Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. 2 Corinthians 3:5

Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16

The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand. Psalm 37: 23-24

The battle is not ours, but God's. 2 Chronicles 20:15

 Look to the Lord and his strength; seek his face always. 1 Chronicles 16:11

But now, this is what the Lord says—he who created you, Jacob, he who formed you, Israel: “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine." Isaiah 43:1

He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. Psalm 103:10-12

No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 87-39

For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, Colossians 1:13

In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16


Who is it that overcomes the world except the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God?
I John 5:5

Now that you know the way out, do as I have done...share the Way with someone else. 

Thursday, February 03, 2022

Prayers for a friend's granddaughter

Update: Ella has caught up in growth and has plenty of amniotic fluid! She is kicking up a storm in her mother's womb. Thank you for those prayed for her. 

December 29:

Ella is in the womb and about 20 weeks. The previous scan showed no growth and abnormally low amniotic fluid (almost none). After that appointment, Ella's grandmother, a long-time friend of ours, contacted us for prayer. 

On Monday, the family was called to a maternal-fetal specialty. They were concerned for Ella. Her amniotic fluid is in the normal range now but on the low end of normal. Ella has grown a tiny bit since the last scan. She is in the 6th percentile. All of Ella's organs look normal and seem to be functioning properly.

The family is asking for prayers that Ella will continue to grow and her fluid levels will increase. 

May the Lord bless you for any prayers you lift on Ella's behalf.


Emily Art

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a new canvas still in progress

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a completed scene

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Tuesday, February 01, 2022

Keep It Simple Seed Starting Mix

Lots of new gardeners this year! I am excited as many learn this useful skill.

This is the basic seed starting mix I have been using with good success for a good while now.

Wendy's Keep It Simple Seed-Starting Mix

4 parts compost or garden soil (Some sterilize their garden soil.)
1 part perlite
1 part vermiculite or sand
2 parts peat moss

Mix it up in whatever container you have on hand. Break up any clumps. Put it to use.

Happy Gardening!